Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, February 12, 2013

The Pains Of Going Through A Loved One's Demise

By Jamie Brown


Death comes when you least expect it. Like an expert thief, it lurks amongst the shadows, and catches you off guard. Its only difference from a thief is that it doesn't take with it your jewelry or your cash. It robs you of your most precious acquisition: life. When death knocks, no one can say no. It can simply take away the life of your kid, the life of your partner, the life of your parent, the life of your buddy, without seeking your approval.

The idea of death brings out a myriad of emotions. Some individuals get stuck living in retrospect, hoping they could touch their beloved departed once again. Some become mad at of deities while others drown in waves of remorse.

Successfully dominating the pains of death has only been enjoyed by a chosen few. Majority of bereaved individuals continue to get lost in a deep emotional sea of sorrow, anguish and pain.

Do you consider yourself a prisoner of the past? Are you haunted by your loved one's current demise? Are you feeling the pains of being buried under a pile of consuming emotions? The best thing to remember while going through this phase is this: It's okay to cry.

It's normal to make yourself susceptible to pain and grief. But at some point, you must pick up the pace once again and live life with hope. Why? Because that is what your beloved departed wants for you: a normal life. Talk to friends about how you feel. Seek help if possible. Do worthwhile activities that inspire you. Lastly, avoid all possible stressors. Repel the added upset of funeral preparation with the assistance of a funeral director Singapore. You may then talk about funeral and Singapore caskets services suited for your loved one. Hiring professional funeral preparation services will give your departed the respect and honour he or she deserves even after life.




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