Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, December 31, 2010

Saving Your Relationship With Your Guy

By Alison Sealy


If you look back at the last conversation that you had with your boyfriend you could be getting a little bit confused because maybe it was an argument or maybe he acted like he doesn't have feelings for you anymore.

Well, he just probably acted that way from instinct but he really still likes you and deep don he still have feelings for you. The relationship could have a second chance if you know how to have a good getting back together conversation.

This depends on him mostly, but with the right words you can revive your relationship. Here are some tips hat can be useful.

In this conversation, try to avoid talking about why he should give you a second chance. If you want to have the expected results you need to focus this conversation on his wishes.

This conversation shouldn't take place right after you broke up. Spend some time and think about what he really wants and needs from a perfect relationship.

The main character in this conversation should definitely be him. The good moments of the relationship should be another point in this conversation. Don't bring up all the bad moments and feeling because it will definitely ruin your chances of getting back together. Mention the fact that your relationship was very good and fill him up with all the good moments.

Men don' want to look cheesy and he might not be impressed at first but if you mention how well you know him you might get to his feelings. You can also say that you feel like you are soul mates and this can surly guarantee success.

This is only the first move that you need to make but probably the hardest one. Having this conversation will allow you to make further moves. Following these tips you have all the chances of getting your relationship back.




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