Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, June 20, 2009

Proven & Tested Plans to Win Back Your Ex

By Ricardo d Argence

Do you remember how hard it was to get your lover? Now, multiply it by three times since you two have broken up. This is because they know you, don't really understand you, and you lost a connection along the line of being together.

What is usually the case though is that most people don't have a clue where to start and they either rush around sending expensive gifts or making a ton of phone calls all of which only serve to push their exs further away.

In order to get win back an ex is to analyze your strategy. Approach the situation in a calm, relaxed manner so you can appear functional. Some ex's are turned off by expensive gifts or desperate attempts to get their attention when they don't want you. Take your time and make them want you instead.

If your ex broke things off with you by impulse, let the emotions settle before contacting them about the relationship. Sometimes people need a day off to get their thoughts together. To win an ex back effectively, you have to know what's going on inside of yourself than inside of their heads.

Concentrate on improving yourself by building your self-esteem as it should be. Do not get depressed, shallow, or develop anger towards your ex. Spend time with friends, family, or colleagues to work out some emotional issues or hard feelings by having fun.

It's important to consider having fun, but it's the only way to loosen your mind to get back the one you love. Take your time then move forward in trying to understand the problems you had.

Consider your body's functions. Look after your health so you can develop a strong sense of self-confidence by enhancing your figure. Work out in a gym, spend time with your kids, and work hard on keeping your life on track.

You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Stop worrying about your ex and join some social activities to keep yourself up. Stay around people as much as possible so you don't have to stay alone. Keep your blood pumping and mind off the break up.

Review your current diet to see what's keeping you laid back. What foods are causing you to gain a lot of weight? What makes you feel bogged down during the morning hours? Learn how to eat better so you can function at your best every day. By taking care of yourself, you might win back an ex with little effort.

In fact, consider combining all of these tips together to win back an ex.

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