Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, June 22, 2009

A Proven Plan to Get Back with Your Ex

By Ricardo d Argence

Once you've been dumped by an ex that you're still in love with then your main goal is usually to find some way to win back an ex who has broken your heart.

A lot of people have used hundreds of methods to try to get their ex back, but pushed them away instead. You don't have to follow their rules or try their ways; take a moment to get an idea of what you're going to do then start working on your plan.

In order to get win back an ex is to analyze your strategy. Approach the situation in a calm, relaxed manner so you can appear functional. Some ex's are turned off by expensive gifts or desperate attempts to get their attention when they don't want you. Take your time and make them want you instead.

If your ex broke things off with you by impulse, let the emotions settle before contacting them about the relationship. Sometimes people need a day off to get their thoughts together. To win an ex back effectively, you have to know what's going on inside of yourself than inside of their heads.

Concentrate on improving yourself by building your self-esteem as it should be. Do not get depressed, shallow, or develop anger towards your ex. Spend time with friends, family, or colleagues to work out some emotional issues or hard feelings by having fun.

It's important to consider having fun, but it's the only way to loosen your mind to get back the one you love. Take your time then move forward in trying to understand the problems you had.

For the same reason looking after your body is key. When you take the time to do some regular exercise and eat well, you begin to feel focused, less confused and defeatist about what you're going through.

Sometimes you don't have to join a gym if working out is not your thing; consider joining a book club, going out to a night club once or twice, and staying around people as much as possible. Do something that will keep your blood pumping and your mind off of the break up.

Review your current diet to see what's keeping you laid back. What foods are causing you to gain a lot of weight? What makes you feel bogged down during the morning hours? Learn how to eat better so you can function at your best every day. By taking care of yourself, you might win back an ex with little effort.

Combine all of these tips together and you will have a tested & proven plan to win back an ex by taking care of your own well-being for a while.

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