Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, June 19, 2009

Smart Methods to Win an Ex Girlfriend Back

By Ricardo d Argence

Just how long or how quickly has it taken you to figure out that you want to find out how to get your ex girlfriend back?

A lot of guys are not sure if they want their girlfriends, but it's evident when they first walk out the door. Other guys wait until they're dating someone else to realize the new girl is not for them.

How to get your ex girlfriend back under whatever time lapse, involves the same steps. It can be quick and it can be easy, if you follow some basic steps.

In the midst of the pain, try to get back in shape. Be upfront and take the situation at face value. You two broke up for some reason - it's time to find out why. But first, don't eat too much ice cream or drink beer for a pain suppressant. Take your health seriously because love is not worth self- indulgence.

Too much self-indulgence can add weight around your sides. Those 'love' handles would be developed from the anger you have towards your ex girlfriend. It's not worth it so hit the field with confidence and look for a way to get through the troubles.

If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, consider chilling with the guys for a while. Go out. Change. Another way to get over the circumstances is to date someone else that you might like. You don't have to like her all the way, but you can chill out with the chic until you settle your thoughts.

Remember, you're not actually in a relationship with your ex, you might want to be, but until that dream is an actual, you're a free agent. But don't set out to hurt some other girl just because you want to make your ex jealous or just because you're thinking about yourself. Just make it clear to the girl that you're just interested in some fun and nothing more.

Think about your previous relationship and what it did to you. Do you want to go back to that or do you want something more? In order to get your ex girlfriend back without strings, make this clear in your mind.

Be original and fresh instead of old and boring. A lot of guys try to use flowers, cards, and candy to sweet their ex off their feet. This is not going to work if you don't have a plan. Don't spend any money on them, it's time for you to spend an afternoon or quality time that can help reinforce your love.

Keep yourself in the best condition possible - instill your security, keep your mind and heart open to changes, and work with your own problems first. Once you have everything together, contact your ex girlfriend for a brief hello.

Be open to simple conversation in the beginning. Do not pressure your ex girlfriend back into the relationship because it may make her uncomfortable.

Depending on what you deduce, you either ask for a second chance or you retreat and give it more time.

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