Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, October 31, 2010

Procrastination As The Worst Enemy To Getting Things Done

By Paul Stuart

To run a productive and successful business calls for efficiency and meticulous planning on the part of the owner in order to expand and boost its services or the products. There are a few tips that one can use to avoid falling into the usual productivity traps. You can sidestep them completely and increase the productivity levels by far.

Procrastination: When tempted a lot to keep postponing the harder work you have to do for later, and think you should have a go at the simpler tasks first. This is a bad idea.

Procrastination tends to kill motivation because you will keep rescheduling the tougher tasks which will make them appear tougher than they really are. You need to form the habit of dealing with tasks as soon as they land on your desk as fast as you can without choosing; but the only priority should be the order of which ones are needed first.

Non Prioritization of work: It is very wrong to have the mentality that all tasks are equal and it does not matter however way you go about tackling them even without following any particular order; so long as you are busy working.

A rush begins when you suddenly realize that there are some tasks which were needed earlier than the others and that some were actually more important than the rest. This is why successful and productive people must prioritize work according to their importance and urgency.

Checking the email first thing in the morning: You might be thinking that it is a very wise move to first check the emails to see what is new every morning, but this is not what is recommended as fresh mail tends to distract you from the original schedules.

To keep off this trap, you should stick to the schedule and put in a whole hour of solid work before checking the mail each morning.

Some people tune their email program alerts to come on every time a new mail arrives, well what you will need to succeed is to turn that alarm off because it only serves as a distraction to you. Just stick meticulously to the tasks at hand and clear them all in the fastest time possible. This is the best way to grow and improve our business.

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Broken Relation Grief - You Can Overcome The 5 Five Stages

By Louis Cruz

Broken relationship grief and emotional grief are not much different. In fact they are about the same since emotional grief also has five stages. They both consist of the loss of someone special. Losing somebody you really love is a very hard event in life. But we all must at some point in the road of life encounter this experience. So knowing the five stages and becoming familiar with the stage in which you are will let you conquer and allow you to endure this hard time.

Denial

An attitude of denial ordinarily occurs after a close loving relationship is broken. A relationship that existed for years and out of the blue is finished could be very traumatic. You might one day come out of work and expect your ex to be outside waiting for you when you then recall that you broke up and that your ex is not coming.. And possibly never coming back to pick you up or meet you at work. This may be a difficult matter to accept. So you tell yourself, "Is this really happening", or "this cannot be".

Anger

Anger is the next emotion that we experience in this second stage. All stages are important but this stage is delicate. During this stage you are at the risk of manifesting your anger in the wrong way and to the wrong people. You may get angry at God. But believe me it is not his fault. Crazy things may go through your mind. You may think of getting even with your ex boy or girlfriend or even rejecting the people who so dearly love you and try to support and comfort you in this delicate time. This is definitely a stage where you need to make an effort to think before you talk and dedicate much time to reflection.

Bargaining

This is a very crucial stage. What makes this stage difficult is that the pain is making you wish that nothing is happening and that everything will go back to the way it was before. You wish it to be normal once more. So you start bargaining with your ex making promises hoping that you may convince your ex to come back to you. You may also end up making promises to God hoping that he will assist you to get everything you want. Or perform some miracle or something like that. You get false hopes in this stage. You are still trying to hang on to fake hopes and still suffering from denial.

Depression

At this stage you are finally realizing and feeling that all is lost and that there are no possibilities of you getting back together with your ex. So you sink into the stage of depression. You cannot see a clear future. You do not know what the future will hold for you and you begin to experience sadness and emotions of bitterness and frustration. The emotions are overwhelming and cause you to feel sorry for yourself. You also feel defenseless. All these emotions are in their peak in this stage. Of all stages this is a time to look for support in the persons who love you. It may they be family or friends. It is important to not lose faith completely. If you are spiritual, look for help from heaven and use all means possible to overcome this stage of depression. Understand that as time goes by, you will overcome this stage and realize that the future is really not that dim. There are still many beautiful things in life and beautiful people to meet. This takes us to the next stage.

Acceptance

You have gone through some serious stages of grief due to a broken relationship. But now you have fortunately come to the stage of acceptance. Despite the fact that the majority of the previous feelings still exist but you are not combating a great deal against destructive thoughts and false thoughts of hope. This stage of acceptance is not a stage of resignation. Put simply, you just have not given up on life. Quite the opposite, you now accept that you will not be sharing your life with your ex and reset your mind to accept this new life and realized that there is a future without your ex. You are driven to develop your goals gradually so that you can insure a bright future. You also recognize that your broken relationship is in the past and that you must go forward.

As you go through these stages you will finally get to the phase in which you will appreciate the things you experienced through this tough time. Continue to look for support in good friends and always have someone you can talk to. Pray and meditate a lot.

Please remember that countless others are coping with your same challenge. You are not alone. You can and will make it through this broken relationship grief.

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Saturday, October 30, 2010

What Are The Benefits Of Life Regression Therapy

By Simon Bateman

Life regression therapy is a known and well-established therapy which is used to deal with different types of traumas in ones life. Psychotherapists are known to use hypnosis and delusion to make their patients recall experiences and incidents from their past life.

There are some practitioners who use life regression therapy to find a solution to current-life problems of their patients. They ask questions that help patients bring back memories of past lives. The patients are able to bring back to memory their identity and situations.

It is also believed that many a times, past life is one of the main reason for their present psychological problems and therefore life regression therapy comes in handy to help these patients.

Life regression therapies are used by many physicians to relieve and treat people of their stress and help them in living a normal life by getting rid of their past life problems. Many people even suffer from high of levels of anxiety and even nightmares. This therapy helps people to get rid of their obstacles and also the blocks to their inner joy and happiness.

Also you could refer many books on life regression therapy as well. About a few years back, people did not really believe in life regression therapy and its techniques. But then more and more people are finding positive results to their problems by using these therapies and this branch of science have also started gaining popularity slowly.

Some books about life regression therapy also reveals that how ones past and present lives are inter-related and few practitioners use this therapy to the bridge gap between past and present life and improve the future of their patients.

Life regression therapy is used by many physicians to cure patients not only with their psychological problems but also cure them of with their physical and emotional pains. They use this therapy to gradually progress their patient's life to a happy and healthy future.

Many people may still not believe in beneficial aspects of past life regression therapy. They disregard this technique as mere fantasy or delusion and do not have faith in its effectiveness.

A past life regression is generally undertaken by people who are in pursuit of some spiritual experience or even in a psychotherapeutic setting to get rid of some problems. Staunch religious people rather have a strong faith in past life regression while few others just take it as another thought.

The life regression therapy technique sessions involves few vivid and realistic experiences. Sometimes, these techniques use two of the senses of the patients. The senses can either be vision, hearing, or physical sensations or even a combination of both.

At other times, these experiences may involve only a few subtle images and feelings. In any case, they are enough to form a conclusion about what the person is going through. Most life regression sessions involve only the facilitator and the experience. The session begins with a discussion and is followed by regression.

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Friday, October 29, 2010

Things You Need To Do And Not Do For A Successful Cosmic Order

By Helen Bush

Understanding the basics of how to do cosmic order is all what is required for achieving desired results. This kind of thing is natural for many walks of life. If this procedure of cosmic order is the first time you hearing about, then read this article and it will not take you long to find your connection with the universe all over again. Mentioned below are some easy tips for you to understand how to achieve your desires.

Be very sure and accurate on what you desire for or what you want. Let's take an example, if you want a digital camera for yourself, then you should be very specific which brand and what model you desire for. Just thinking about a digital camera without any further elaborate details will not do. Do you want to become an artist or do want a job in a corporate field.

Never talk about your cosmic orders. A person needs to have a firm belief with their positive experiences with cosmic orders, only then it is advised to talk about their experiences and help others achieve success with their own desired orders.

Cosmic order is all about being positive or living positively. This is how you will able to succeed in whatever you have desire for to come true. Do give any space to negative thoughts. If for once you feel negative about your desires, it is sure that the process ends there. It is really important that you should remain cheerful and positive throughout.

Now, here are a few things which you need to do: Believing in Law of Attraction is the most vital thing and the cosmic order has to be very specific. For example, if your want to gain weight and tired of being skinny then you should be specific on how much you want to gain. Whatever you desire for, be specific and you will hundred percent receive it.

This process of cosmic order of being positive and living as if you have already achieved your desires come with benefits like, positivity is all around you with people full of joy, your work stress becomes low and you tend to be happy and gay every now and then.

Always remember that when the actual time comes when you receive what you had actually desired, don't forget to thank the universe. This is really important, even though you won't get a reply but still you need to thank the law of universe so that the process of cosmic order remains beneficial for you in future too.

In short, be positive and never be surrounded with negative thoughts. Stay focused, you should know exactly what you desire for. Never give up in the process of cosmic order and at the end, don't forget to thank the law of universe.

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Understand Cosmic Ordering

By Allison McIssaak

Cosmic ordering refers to a belief that persons can use their wishes to attach with the cosmos and make those wishes turn into a reality.

Cosmic Ordering theory works in the following way - you take a decision on what you want and when you want it.

A declaration is made to the cosmos after the decision taken by is finalized. Then you go ahead and make an announcement of this decision to the cosmos the way you like to; this could be simply placing an order or with some rituals with quick thoughts. There are no limits of your desires or to cosmic ordering. You can ask for anything that you desire whether it is for professional reasons or for personal desires. The only requirement that is essential her is that you be open, positive and at ease.

Now the question that arises is that where or to whom exactly does the order go? Well there is a belief that to some degree the order is placed on yourself as you have an influence on the reality of your expectations. A close look at some basics of cosmic ordering is as below:

Firstly you must know what it is that you desire. Be aware of the real desires and know what you really want.

In order to understand your desires correctly and clearly spend some time with yourself. The moment you gain clarity about your desires and wishes you must begin to imagine them. Also you must try to find out what feelings are associated with this desire - good or bad?

This act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. So it's essential that you desire the right thing that makes you happy.

After this step just let it go. Once you have placed your cosmic order, you're done. Now you can focus on something else, something that makes you feel good. You need to be sure to keep a light, casual, happy feeling about it after your cosmic order is completed.

Cosmic Ordering is now the in New Age faith. The basic standard in this is that no matter what you place an order and your desire will come true with cosmic order.

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

What Are The Benefits Of Life Regression Therapy

By Simon Bateman

Life regression therapy is a well known and also a well-established therapy. This is used to deal with different kinds of traumas in life. Psychotherapists are known to use hypnosis and delusion therapies to help their patients recall the experiences and situations from their past life.

There are also some therapists who use this life regression therapy to find a solution to the individual's problems in the present. They tend to ask questions that might help the patients to bring back the memories of their past lives. The patients are able to bring back to memory about their past identity and situations that troubled them.

It is believed that many times, past life is a reason for present psychological problems and therefore life regression therapy is used to cure patients.

Life regression therapies are effectively used to relieve people of their stress and help them in living a normal life. Many a people suffer from high of levels of anxiety and even nightmares. The therapy helps people to get rid of obstacles and blocks to their inner joy and happiness.

Also you could refer many books on life regression therapy as well. About a few years back, people did not really believe in life regression therapy and its techniques. But then more and more people are finding positive results to their problems by using these therapies and this branch of science have also started gaining popularity slowly.

Some books about life regression therapy also reveals that how ones past and present lives are inter-related and few practitioners use this therapy to the bridge gap between past and present life and improve the future of their patients.

Life regression therapy is used by many physicians to cure patients with their psychological problems and is also known to cure them of with their physical and emotional pains. They use this therapy to gradually progress their patient's life to a happy and healthy future.

Many people may still not believe in beneficial aspects of past life regression therapy. They disregard this technique as mere fantasy or delusion and do not have faith in its effectiveness.

A past life regression is typically undertaken by people in pursuit of some spiritual experience or in a psychotherapeutic setting to get rid of some problems. Staunch religious people have strong faith in past life regression while others take it as just another thought.

The typical life regression therapy technique session involves few vivid and realistic experiences. Sometimes, these techniques use two of the senses. The senses may either be vision, hearing, or physical sensations or even a combination of both.

Most of the time the life regression sessions only involves the facilitator and the experience. The session generally begins with a discussion and is followed by a regression.

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What Is Meant By Cosmic Ordering?

By Allison McIssaak

Cosmic ordering refers to a belief that persons can use their wishes to attach with the cosmos and make those wishes turn into a reality.

It is in the following manner that the theory of cosmic ordering works. You take a decision on what you desire and when you would like to achieve that thing.

Then you make an announcement of your cosmic order to the cosmos. This decision is announced in ways that suit you; whether with a bit of rituals or by simply placing an order with a fast thinking. There are no limitations put to cosmic ordering and you can ask for anything personal, professional desires. There is only one requirement here and that is that you be positive, open and at ease.

When we look at where or to whom exactly does the order go, it's believed that to some degree you order yourself as you have an influence on the reality of your expectations. Let us look at some basics of cosmic ordering.

To begin with you must be aware of your desire. What is it that you really want? What really gives you happiness? This step is essential in cosmic ordering and it does not refer to what you've been trained to want and what is desired by your friends and family.

It's essential to spend some time with yourself in order to understand your desires clearly. Once you are clear and certain about your desires, you must start imagining your desires. In addition try to find out whether this desire gives you a good or bad feeling.

This act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. So it's essential that you desire the right thing that makes you happy.

Therefore this act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. You just let go after this step. You are done once you have placed your cosmic order. Post this you can focus on something else.

Cosmic Ordering is now the in New Age faith. The basic standard in this is that no matter what you place an order and your desire will come true with cosmic order.

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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Steps To Take To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

By Luv More

Understanding just how to get your ex boyfriend back can often be a hit and miss affair and it's no wonder, because as a rule we're not taught this stuff. We either have to make it up as we go along, or rely on our friends to help us out.

But guess what? Our friends equally have no clue how to help us and they're also making it up as they go. But the reality is that it simply takes using a proven plan and then taking action on that plan, for you to win back your boyfriend.

The first step you should take is to put some distance between you and your ex. This simple action will preserve your sanity as well as make a clear statement to your ex boyfriend. This is an important step and will put an end to fixating on your ex boyfriend. You will be able to concentrate for a change on your requirements and need to get you through this very stressful time.

Make an effort to reconnect with your friends and family and be willing to accept the help that will undoubtedly come from the people who care for you. If you are really serious about figuring out how to get your ex boyfriend back it would be a very big mistake for you to isolate yourself.

If you surround yourself with people that love and care about you then you won't be sitting around your house obsessing and crying about the breakup of the relationship with your ex boyfriend.

Now that you are spending so much time with your loved ones ask them what they think was the cause of the breakup. You probably have your own ideas and it is likely that your ex gave you a good idea of why he was walking out.

However, sometimes it takes the perspective of an outsider looking in to make sense of a relationship. So if you seriously want to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back then ask others for their opinions.

The next step you need to take is to really think about what you have been told by your friends and family about the relationship and breakup. Take that input and think about what they said. You will either disagree or agree with what they told you since you have no doubt been given different opinions from each of them.

Remember as you are thinking about what they said, that the final decision is up to you. You started out wanting to get your ex boyfriend back, but do you still want that? Perhaps you heard some things and have some questions and doubts. Maybe you have come to terms with the breakup and are able to accept it more easily.

No matter where you are with your breakup, be clear about what you really want before you make any moves.

If you're still determined to go ahead and win him back, then your next move is to call him and to do so calmly and without emotion and drama and talk to him about the way you feel.

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What Exactly Is Dream Consciousness?

By David Seegar

The state of dream consciousness can be described as a state when a person is dreaming and is well aware that he is dreaming. A person who is dreaming knows that whatever is happening is not for real. It is all in his dreams.

When there is a state of dream consciousness, a person is aware that though he is a participant of actions and tasks around him his body is not participating, the body is safe and is taking rest somewhere. This state of dreaming is also known as lucid dreaming.

The state of dream consciousness is also known as lucid dreaming. In these circumstances, a person well aware that is dreaming and whatever he is doing or indulging in will have no social pressures or social and physical consequences.

Dream consciousness or lucid dreaming is a state that makes person get an exhilarating experience, something that gives great pleasure to a person. It is for this pleasure that many people attempt to remember their lucid dreams.

In fact, there are many people who put in their best efforts to learn the techniques and tricks to have a state of dream consciousness and remember what they experience during their moments of lucid dreams. They learn these tricks so that they can call their dreams whenever they want. They can also decide the types of lucid dreams that they want to have.

The concept of lucid dreaming has also proved to be very effective in curing people of their nightmares. Many experiments have been conducted to gather evidence that lucid dreams are an effective way to make people get rid of their imaginary fears.

State of dream consciousness is also a very effective and harmless ways to give expression to some of the wildest and craziest desires and fantasies of a person. In such situations of dream consciousness, people often thin and dream of things that they would not be able to in normal circumstances. Lucid dreams are an opportunity to give vent to ones' desires without thinking about society and consequences.

There are popular tricks and exercises such as MILD, WILD, and WBTB that are often used by people to remember and in induce lucid dreams. They are then even able to choose the topics, subjects, and even participants for their lucid dreams.

To achieve status of dream consciousness and continue experiencing it without any disturbance for long time, one must be aware of his sleep patterns and schedules. To better remember dreams, a person must try and wake up during these dreams.

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Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Harmed Feelings - Ways To Get Back On Your Feet Once More

By Mary Saunders

Breakups leave people in the relationship torn, lonely and depressed. It is a very painful experience because it signifies loss and broken dreams. At the beginning of the relationship, there is a high level of romance, excitement, hopes and dreams for the future. However, if such relationship comes to an end, a person feels stress, disappointment, grief and failure.

Getting oneself out of the painful experience is not an easy task. Having to deal with sadness and the feeling of being alone is hard. Yet, one can do some things to make the mending of a broken heart faster.

Dealing with a broken heart is hard. It leaves you helpless and keeps your energy level low. However, you cannot live your entire life in grief. Instead, stand up and find the most comfortable ways for you to get over the heartbreaking incident.

Cry your heart out. Spend a whole day crying and sulking. Sleep and be lazy. Spend the entire day acknowledging the wave of emotions you are feeling. For you to be able to recover, it is best to understand that it is alright to feel that way. Suppressing the pain will do no good. It will just prolong the pain of heartbreak. After doing this for a day, stand up and start moving on.

Find an outlet for your feelings. Although it is difficult to share about how you feel to other people, it is one of the important ways to do to overcome the feeling of loss. Sharing your feelings to other people lessens the feeling of being alone. If you cannot afford to share your thoughts to others, keeping a journal and writing it down will also help.

Strengthen your spiritual side. Going to church, praying and learning from a yogi can help you find your way out of the negative emotions brought about by the breakup. Developing stronger faith to God makes you feel less alone and will help you re-center your life.

Life does not have to end together with the relationship you have kept and took care of for how many years. Learn to let go and accept that some things are not destined to be together. You and your special someone might go separate ways for now, but it you two were really meant for each other, when the time is right, fate will bring you back together. For the mean time, enjoy life on your own. Being single is not bad as it may seem.

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Dreaming Of The Truth War

By Dorothy Auston

Truth will set you free. Truth is the fundamental reason of the war going on around us. People fight against each other not only because of benefits, but more importantly, things which people believe to be the exclusive truth. Inside everyone's heart, there is an arena of the war of truth.

This war began in the kingdom of heaven, when Satan was cast out. But we are also involved due to Adam and Eve. This is not only because of the fact that they ate the forbidden fruit, but that they chose to believe lies instead of the truth of God.

Eating the forbidden fruit proves that they believed the lies of the enemy. When you believe a lie, you empower the liar. Agreeing the devil empowers the devil. This allows it to steal, to kill and to destroy. When Adam and Eve acted that way, they denied the truth of God.

Roman chapter 1 verse 18~21 clearly wrote what it means for people to fall. And this is the fall from truth. The word of God is truth and is life. When Adam and Eve chose not truth and life and took lie and death, they are really fallen.

Paul said the eternity and power of God can be clearly seen. According to the original Greek, the words literally mean 'seen from above'. When Adam and Eve were fallen, they fell form the view point of God. Before they opposed the truth, they had perfect right to understand the nature and the will of God.

Paul also said that, 'Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.' This means that people can see the image of God on each other, because we are all made in the image of God. But when human opposed the truth about God's nature, the image is twisted and we lost our original identiy and purpose.

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Monday, October 25, 2010

Considerations To Keep In Mind If You Wish To Become Organized

By Larry Johnson

Not many people are aware that an average person can lose an hour each day through being disorganized. These hours in financial equation can be huge enough to impact negatively on the future growth of the business. Avoid any further losses to make you a statistic in business, get an organized work area.

#1 - Keep everything at arm's reach: All the things you need in the office to do your daily chores like the computer, the notepad, the filing cabinet, the printer and all else must be at a reasonably easy reach from where your desk is. Note that each time you rise up to go get one item or the other, will result in wastage of time and distraction.

#2 - Get a U-shaped workstation: It is the place where everything will be arranged around the U-shaped work area which accords you much space and most things you need are in your view and easy reach.

It gets better if you can afford a rotating chair which will swivel you to reach things easily instead of you standing to reach out or strain your back and neck to get to things. Of course this will improve your comfort and productivity.

#3 - Review the floor plans of your office: Take time to map out how you position things in your office such that repositioning of such items as the desk which can be put close to the power outlets or at a strategic position with a full view of the whole office or even at a place which is more quiet. Your needs should dictate where the best layout should be.

#4 - Do away with the clutter: The office can accumulate some clutter in form of paperwork and other such office items, so it is wise to remove them from the work area so as to clear the way and create more space for greater productivity. Do this each morning as you take your cup of coffee and while planning the day's work.

This way your office will look more organized and you will enjoy working there plus it will be easier to move around and do things.

Please do this every morning and you will enjoy your work each day without having to rush out of the office for any reason at all.

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Are You Sure You're Ready To Have An Affair With Another Person?

By Michelle Tatcher

Does it make sense to believe in something that could be a lie? Why on earth would you trust on a cheater? It is very unlikely to do so. This same way you would look at it as a long shot if you tried to get someone to forgive your cheating. So how does it happen?

Once you lose your loyalty and decide that you are going to have an affair, you have broken the most fundamental of marriage vows. The full effect of this is that hearts are broken and pain is caused to the other partner.

It is wise to keep your alertness early on in the relationship. Look for any signs that imply a likelihood of cheating. Are their traces of somebody else?

Before you have an affair with someone else, consider your spouse's feelings and see if what you are doing is worth the moment. One should put himself in his spouse's shoes and see what it feels like to be cheated.

It is more than being diplomatic when you decide to break off the marriage before proceeding intimacy with somebody else. It is much more respectable. You would rather do it this way instead of eating forbidden fruit while still clinging to a marriage partner.

Affairs are never fair to the relationship, no matter who you are. There is so much guilt in knowing that you have cheated on a partner and it puts a wall in between the two of you.

More is even expected of you if you know that you have children. Your children are likely to hurt from the effects of that if you have an affair. How will you deal with the badge of being the one behind your children's sense of insecurity? People should see if they have an answer to these questions before they attempt to cheat.

The action no matter how tempting, is a life changing experiences. You will end up in a life of loneliness once you fall for the trap because the passion you once had for your spouse will fade away so quick and hence there will be nothing to look up to.

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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Defeating The Problem Of Delaying Tasks

By Gavin Hepburn

A lot is normally done by those who want to appear to beat the problem of procrastination but to no avail; since it is very persistent and predominant in most people. Now there is good news and hope in the following remedies that one can follow to get rid of this problem.

The first thing you should do if you are one of those that are struggling over this issue is to own up to it and begin to look for help to rectify the situation immediately.

After this; begin to identify possible remedies that can help to put you back on track. Point out the reasons without flinching why you have not been able to save money, improve your income, cut down that weight, ability to keep time and so on and the list will probably be long and shameful. Get furious at the things that have been keeping you at making the best of situations.

No matter the length of the list showing you how much time you have lost over the years, do not regret it. Hasten to rectify things by embarking on the right path immediately in order to recoup lost time.

Now for the greatest step that will really impact your life, take steps to rectify things and never ever slip back to your procrastinating ways. It is not a magical wand or the world of Harry Porter, neither is it any rocket science which the more productive people use, it is simply a matter of doing what has to be done in the best time possible.

It does not matter what kind of work is put before you, persuade yourself that you can do it in record time. There should be no excuses whatsoever on why tasks could not be finished.

Lastly, try to look at achievements and the great strides you have made and reflect on why it was possible. See the efficacy of how the work was finally accomplished in record time and congratulate yourself that it was not bad at all.

Making use of these guidelines will help to make you a better person in the sense that you will eventually form the habit of not procrastinating and with greater effort, you will continue to make progress and eventually your character will be different. You will become somebody who does not enjoy dilly dallying with tasks.

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Saturday, October 23, 2010

Searching For Answers To Some Questions Concerning The Law

By James Murch

The definition of law is not something to easily come by, because a lot of groups of people have varied perception on what law is and what the legal institution should be. This has really made every definition un-sacrosanct and highly subjection. Though un-sacrosanct, we can refer to law as the rules and regulations that societies tide on. The rules and regulations, the agents and agency that ensure the law can also refer to the legal system.

As the world keeps changing, with many people acquiring deep knowledge and understanding of situations around us, many are those who think there is something wrong with the very foundation of law. Some also wonder if it is still important to keep some aspect of the law.

It is now very important to ask certain question that confronts us, Why must the law that protect lives also give acceptance to kill people who have committed crime. Must the law again accept that people take their own lives? Must it necessary restrict grown persons in their marriage life especially as to who to marry?

These are questions which keep knocking on the doors of overseers of the law for answers. But one can appreciate answers to these questions well if they know a little about Jurisprudence. Jurisprudence is simply about the mentality behind law and how is has developed through the generations.

Jurisprudence can be broken into two other headings, Normative and Analytical jurisprudence. Normative jurisprudence does a good work of talking the very structures on which the law survives. That is the things the law regards as right and wrong and why someone should suffer for the things the law regards as wrong.

Considering this, it becomes very difficult to answer some questions, For instance the reason why the law can give a human the permit to take the life of another person. Normative jurisprudence again looks at what the law must be and the logic in giving punishment.

Analytical jurisprudence also takes the burden of looking into the law and the legal system in its entirety. It concentrates on the how the law operates and the different areas the law entails. Analytical jurisprudence is more open and unrestricted in it study, and for that matter it deals with everything about law.

This does not give any look at the logic of the law but rather it focuses on the studying of the layout that has already been put in place.

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Friday, October 22, 2010

More Thoughts On The Law Of Attraction

By Melanie Mitchell

"Law of Attraction", as an idea, was put forward by the philosophers of the New Thought. These philosophers were of the opinion that individuals have the ability to bring into their lives, things that they really want. If a person thinks about something a lot, they can try and get that thing into his or her life. But if we think about negative things or unwanted objects a bit too much, then chances are that even those will end up entering our lives.

Many critics and scientists do not believe in the Law of Attraction simply because this law, unlike other laws, cannot be proved scientifically. It cannot be put to test in a laboratory like the laws in physical sciences, or be tested statistically like the laws in the social sciences. Thus, they say that it should not be called a "law". However, there are a lot of people who believe in this law, simply because it affects the psyche, the mind; something that cannot be tested using the mundane, scientific processes.

The law of attraction is not really a concept that is brand new. It was there even a thousand years back. It is applicable, not only for things or objects, but even for the people in our lives. Our mind and attitudes automatically draw those people into our lives that are "like-minded" or share similar thoughts, beliefs and ideas.

We make friends with people we like. We like them because they have similarities with our own selves, our choices, and opinions. We attract people who are very much like ourselves. Even though there may be exceptions, the exceptions are not the rule here. This is all because of the law of attraction.

This law is not the only law of this kind. There are others as well. But this law can be extremely beneficial for those who truly want to bring about alterations in their lives. But this law needs to be believed in. doubt and disbelieve will simply lead to unwanted or wrong results.

Apart from figuring out how exactly the law works, we have to figure out what we exactly want from it, and we have to be fervent and ardent about our wishes. Unless we want something strongly enough, we will not be able to achieve it. Every individual has a lot of potential, and also the power to change many undesired aspects of their lives.

Many individuals feel that the law of attraction can be misused. People could use it to make themselves richer, or more powerful, simply by mastering it. But this is easier said than done. The law does not work for everyone, or just because somebody wants something. The important thing here is the feeling or the sentiment behind the desire. Wishes out jealousy or sheer impulsiveness will not come true. Desires that make us glad or happy are the ones that have chances of coming true. Thus clarity behind wanting what we want is important here.

We need to be sure that we really need that thing in our life, and we will benefit by it. And we also shouldn't have thoughts or beliefs that are conflicting, because in this way our wishes get cancelled. Thus to curb this problem, everyone needs to identify such thoughts, and then deal with them. Once the identification is done, half the job is done. Also, while trying to make the law of attraction work, we need to put away all kinds of negative thoughts and emotions. Such thoughts simply hinder and sabotage the process.

At the same time, simply believing in the law of attraction will not do. We have to have belief in ourselves. And most importantly, we must have belief in our beliefs. All our actions and reactions are, to a great extent, controlled by our beliefs. Our beliefs and values will determine our actions, and these actions of ours, will determine what we attract into our lives. Thus the law of attraction will work effectively only if we believe in ourselves and our abilities.

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Reasons Why You Should Avoid Being A Workaholic

By Jacob Stewart

Are you one of those workaholics who want to get as far in their careers as possible no matter what the price or consequences? Are you one of those people to whom life has no meaning without work?

There is totally no mistake in having an ambitious drive towards success. If anything, all of us should have it. The only perk is that this ambition if let to go unchecked can be the whole reason for your love life's undoing.

By being a workaholic you can flush your love life down the drain and here are some reasons why.

1. Being absorbed in your work full time can only lead to one thing for your mind and body: fatigue. With a fatigued mind and body who even thinks of making a good impression even if they really do get to go out on a date?

2. Focusing only on work will make you miss out on a lot of the other good things that life has to offer. Even though you do manage to go out for an exciting date, your mind will always be on your work and you will not enjoy.

3. Some of the ingredients that go into having a healthy relationship are commitment and attention. If all of your commitment and attention is going into your work then guess who suffers, your partner who is not getting any of these two things.

4. Spending quality time together that you can enjoy is the main idea of being in a relationship. Without this, you will only grow away from each other as you put all your time into work.

Balance your personal life and your work and you will have a much fuller success in life.

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Thursday, October 21, 2010

Unusual Gifts From The Pope's Visit

By Tom Doerr

When Blair was still an Anglican but took communion in a Catholic church, the then archbishop of Westminster, Cardinal Basil Hume, wrote him a letter of reproach, saying that non-Catholics were forbidden to do so. Blair's response to it was to suggest that Jesus Christ at any rate would have approved of his action - a clear rejection of ecclesiastical authority. I still suspect him of being a bit of a protestant fifth columnist in the Catholic fold.

The event is surrounded by security, terror threats and controversy but what has been overlooked is the amount of people jumping on the bandwagon and capitalising on the visit with souvenirs and commemorative gifts. But as you would expect, there is a lot of junk on offer which has been designed to make a cheap buck out of all the pontiff's supporters. Street vendors are offering baseball caps for up to 20. And many are flogging pilgrims t-shirts with the option to customise with the name of their church.

Westminster Cathedral's gift shop is stocking specially made plates, photo's books and crosses for the event. But there are also very many bizarre souvenirs available including a 'popener' bottle opener, a Vatican city lighter and a remote control popemobile. Many gift shops are offering silicone bracelets similar to those of the 'livestrong' trend and catholic Swarovski jewellery. However the Catholic Church has rejected claims that the papal visit is being commercialised.

The Pope has come under fire from activists and a potential terrorist plot was uncovered in which 5 men were arrested in London. There has also been much controversy surrounding the Popes address of the issue of child abuse amongst the catholic clergy. The ex-Hitler youth has also likened atheists to Nazis, a comment which has caused a riot in a society gradually moving away from religion.

There are four photographs on the shortlist for the National Portrait Gallery's annual photographic prize which were reproduced, one of them only in part, in yesterday's Guardian. The one of which only a woman's face and top half were shown omitted a part showing her genitals, and the three other entries were of two drug-addicted twins, one obese young woman, and a 14-year-old American girl riding back in triumph from a hunting expedition with a dead deer flung over her horse. Do photographs have to be disturbing, or feature controversial themes, for them to qualify for awards? It never used to be so.

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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Easy Methods To Win Your Lover Back

By Anna Gray

Before contacting your ex and telling her that you want her back, think about what happened in your relationship. Keep in mind that as long as you don't realize your mistakes, the same thing will happen over and over again. Remember every argument you had and try to see if it was you who was at fault. If it was you, think carefully and try to find the correct way of handling that situation. Doing this will help you realize your mistakes and will allow you to accept and move on to the next stage of your relationship.

The usual problem when couples break up is lack of communication. If you really love your girlfriend then you would do anything just to keep lines open. You will never be too busy for her. You can call her up and ask her if you can go out to meet up. Make sure that you get your act right once she's there. It pays to practice saying what you need to say if you are easily confused. Upon meeting her, let her talk and don't be the guy who rambles away. If she sees that you're willing to change and that you are honest and sincere about your apology, she might change her mind and give you a second chance.

Acknowledging your errors is one way to show your ex-girlfriend that you really want to fix everything. It may be hard for your ego and pride, but learning when and when not to lower your pride is essential for every relationship to work.

One reason men and their girlfriends break up is because of bad habits. This will be the ultimate sacrifice for you. Are you willing to give up something you really love to do just to show her how much you love her? For example cutting down on smoking just because she asked to is a big step in your life. Now if you really want to have her back, then you will try to quit.

Women love men who are successful. Showing your ex that you can strive hard and be successful in life may make her realize that you are worth getting back to. Being successful is a very difficult thing to do and you really have to work hard to earn that title.

Follow these tips and for sure you and your ex will be back together in no time. Once the two of you are back together, please don't go back to who you were. Prove to her that she was right in taking the risk of getting back with you.

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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Two Practices To Help Boost One's Level Of Assertiveness

By Jervis Dickinson

It is very simple. If you are not sure yourself, nobody is ever going to agree to you. Being assertive is an asset. It is good to be assertive.

Two strategies are there to help individual become more assertive. One approach deals with your outwardly demeanor. These techniques has to with how to voice your opinion and how you argue in a situation.

The second one relates to your inner self and your inner confidence. It has to do with your self-perception. What do YOU think of yourself? The problem is that the majority of techniques work on your outer self, and how you deal with people. These techniques are of no help unless you have solid inner foundation.

Only a few work on your inner self. If you have weak inner core, then your outwardly confidence would not get you anywhere.

However, if you are in control your emotions, then you will be able to persuade others better. Your arguments will be logical.

In case, you are anxious and unsure, and you are not feeling in a situation, it is better to postpone the discussion to some other time. This way you will be allowed sometime to calm yourself, and work on your arguments.

Hence, if you want to become assertive, the best way to do this is to change your inner self. Indulge in positive self-talks.

Tell yourself repeatedly that you are worthy of everything. This will prevent you from shying away in challenging situations.

You can do that by doing positive self-talks. Say to yourself that you are in right when you make those requests and that you are good enough to be values.

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Relating To The Concept Of Survival Of The Fittest

By Michael Swan

If there is something that is constantly coming and going, it is the seasons. As they come and go, with them, lives constantly change. There is no denying therefore that seasons affect us in one way or the other to change. The only way to achieve success in this world thus, is to make sure that you perfect the art of adaptation.

It is only human to adapt to what circumvents you. The law of survival of the fittest rests on the pillars of adapting to the current habitat.

Much of the earth's population lives for the moment forgetting that life is constantly changing. Even when we take a look at the simplest of our bodily processes, digestion, the hearts beating or the body's immune system, they are always subconsciously changing. This is all pure proof that there is only one way to success; adaptation.

The best way to tackle anything is to constantly adjust your thinking to what surrounds you. If this was false, by following old instructions to the letter one would never get results that were anything less than perfect.

No one can do this however because such instructions may have applied yesterday but they did not factor in the new conditions of today. The environment today is not the same one of yesterdays.

Explaining survival for the fittest cannot be done without one understanding the concept of adaptation. Success can only come to you as quickly as you are able to adapt to your environment.

The only outcome of not heeding these words is death or migration. The business internet money realm is not any different. It is constantly changing and so must you and your methods.

Charles Darwin nailed this down to the letter. This is what he said 'It is not the strongest who survive. It is not even the most intelligent who survive. It is those that adapt the fastest to their surroundings who make it.

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Sunday, October 17, 2010

Digging Further Into The Subconscious Part Of Your Mind

By Albert Watson

Ever ask yourself a question and come up with too many answers or no answer at all? This can be frustrating and usually there's too much going on around us to make the answer clear.

Sit down in a quiet place with paper and pen and write the question on the top slowly three times while you say it out load to yourself. It can be any question, "What will happen to me in a year?"

Now write the first thing that comes to mind, it can be words or a drawing of a ship, just whatever comes first. Just like those ink blot tests they give.

There's no way to mess up, or be wrong so don't worry and don't try to force the answer. If drawing is the answer you feel then draw, just put what comes to mind first.

If you are right handed try using your left hand, go deeper into the subconscious part of your mind. This allows the inner child to be freed and come out in your writing.

Don't stop until you feel ready to. Your intuition is free and guiding you, no matter how long keep going until you feel it's time to stop. Remember there's no right or wrong to this.

When you finish and feel you've done all you needed to take a break, close your eyes, and reboot. Allow yourself the time to let go of your writing and then come back with new eyes and receive your message.

You just gave yourself an intuitive reading it holds answers you never knew where there. It can help you find solutions you may not have found consciously. Now you may know what course of action you need to take or you may have just found out something about yourself you didn't know was there. Whatever it holds for you trust your intuition, it is an untapped power that usually is the key you need. Intuition is that deep down gut feeling, the first answer you usually over look because of logic.

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Did Your Boyfriend Dump You? Tips To Recover After A Break Up

By Luv More

If you feel like the world is ending and you just might die because your boyfriend dumped you remember that this feeling will pass. Even though you are really in pain, it isn't going to kill you.

This is something that you can and will get over. It will take some work, some help, some readjusting in the way you think, and some time. Be sure that just because you are upset that my boyfriend dumped me doesn't mean that life stops, life goes on. Be ready for it.

Getting over the fact that your boyfriend dumped isn't a simple thing to do but it is definitely not impossible. You just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on.

The alternative means that you will be stuck wallowing in your own misery. If that is no life that you want to have then do what it takes to get out of it. It takes work to climb back out of the pit but the work is worth it.

Don't be afraid to get help when you need it, but be careful about where you get the help. If you are seriously depressed, you should probably seek the help of a professional. This doesn't mean you are losing your mind; depression is a condition that many people are dealing with. Don't worry about others judging you; get the help you need.

You may want to turn to your close friends or family members that can help you deal with the fact that your boyfriend dumped you. Try not to put too much on these people though and if you ask for their advice they will expect you to follow it.

If you are constantly complaining about your life and the situation but aren't following up on what advice is given, they are going to reach a point that you don't want. They are going to get tired of you and cut you off or seriously consider it.

You also need to re-frame how you are looking at your situation. Look at if from a different perspective or angle. While you may be thinking its the end of you life, when you view it from another angle you will see it differently.

Try to find that other person's perspective. Try to see what good it is that you have to offer someone. What are your best qualities? For sure there is going to be someone out there who will appreciate them. Wait for them to come along.

While you are waiting, find some way to improve yourself. Find something that you have long dreamed about doing and throw your life into it. If there is something non-romantic that you have longed to achieve in life, pursue it. Do you want to make yourself better in anyway, now is the time to do it.

The end result will be a happier you. Once you have found that happiness, it will become magnetic and draw in the person that you dream of, the one that makes you smile and makes you feel like you belong. It will make you look back on this dark time in your life when you were crying because my boyfriend dumped me and see it as one of the best things that ever happened to you.

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Saturday, October 16, 2010

Why Do I Get Frequent Headaches?

By Rose Williams

Lots of us have to live with headaches, which we have for no apparent reason. Some of these headache types may happen once and then we may live for many years before we experience them again. Other types of headaches occur far more often. These types of headaches are known as 'frequent headaches'.

Frequent headaches in general are tension headaches. Other times, frequent headaches are the result of taking too much over-the-counter (OTC) medications. This sort of frequent headache is also called 'rebound headaches'. While it is safe to take the recommended dosage to treat headaches, rebound headaches occur because the dosage amount has been exceeded.

Generally, one of the ways to stop the pain that are frequent headaches, is to slowly reduce the amount of method that you are taking. People who may find this step difficult, ought to consulting with their GP, who can help to find the optimum method to accomplish this without making their headaches or other condition worse.

Other than overdosing on headache medication, there are also other factors that can start a bout of frequent headaches. These can be excessive amounts of smoking and drinking lots of alcohol beverages. Reducing your alcohol intake to a moderate level can help with reducing the pain of your frequent headaches.

Since smoking any form of tobacco can increase your chances of getting frequent headaches, it is best to stop smoking altogether. While it might sound easy to control these frequent headache triggers, you may actually need professional to help you to reduce your frequent headaches.

Therefore, when you consult with your doctor you should find out about headache clinics and if they have the facilities to assist you with your rebound and/or frequent headaches. People who prefer to deal with controlling their headache medicine themselves can start by reducing the dosage little by little.

When your body can cope with that reduction, you can lower the amount a bit more. Should you feel that the headaches are becoming overwhelming, you have the option of taking cortisone to help tolerate the pain of the headaches while your body slowly adjusts to the new regime.

As frequent headaches are probably caused more by the overdose of headache tablets, it would be a good idea for you to take the medication only when you really need to. This way you can manage your dose of the medicine that makes you get other headaches in addition to what you first started the pain medication for.

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Precognition - What Is It? Can Anyone Develop These Powers?

By Jo Case

The concept of precognition is interesting to those who believe there are aspects of the world which we do not see clearly or know everything about. If you believe there are things out there that most people cannot see with the naked eye, chances are this concept is appealing to you as well.

Precognition is the ability to sense or to know things before they happen and if you have ever experienced it, there is a good chance that it is fascinating to you. While some people can access it more easily than others, precognition seems to be something that all people are interested in.

Those with the power of precognition have the power of knowing or seeing the future or present before it actually transpires. For these people, their precognition can be as clear as if the events are happening in the moment at current times. It is as if the future and current times are playing out for them in the past. They are that certain about what is going to happen.

There is a great variety in what types of information and knowledge different people are able to learn through precognition. While there are some people who have the power to predict some of the most devastating and startling events to occur in history, most people pick up on little bits of information such as where each item might sit on their dinner plate before it is actually delivered to their table.

Precognition often happens just as an empowered person lies down to sleep, though many others may experience their powers at different times of the day or night.

So, why would most people have their precognition moments while falling asleep? It all comes down to the science of the mind. In order to learn the type of information revealed through a moment of precognition you need to be mentally open to it. While most people's conscious mind will block out this knowledge, when they are going to sleep that conscious mind slips into sleep while the more open subconscious mind remains very alert. This creates a more open mental state where precognitive dreams can take place.

When you first start having moments of precognition it can feel very erratic and uncontrollable. The person experiencing the information or flashes of insight may have no control over when it occurs and they may feel unable to make the occurrences stop. It's sort of like the sudden flashes of inspiration that an artist or novelist experiences. There are times they want that magic to happen but it simply won't, and times when they want to turn it off but are unable to do so.

Then as you become more practiced and more experienced with things, you will be able to summon up that sort of insight when you need it. It is much more controlled and it is much easier to use. Interestingly enough, you will find that precognition works in much the same way.

Take a moment and consider whether you have had anything in your past that would have pointed towards precognition. One experience that many people have is that they will be thinking about someone and then a few moments or a few days later, they will receive a call or a letter. On one hand, skeptics will dismiss that coincidence, but when you think about how often it happens and when you think about how strange it would be if it were merely coincidence, you'll see that there could very easily be a case made for being able to tell the future.

This should not be confused with deja vu, which is more of a nagging sensation of having been there already, but rather something that looks forward to the future.

So, what makes precognition happen? This is something that is not clearly understood and which has not been proven, though there are many theories out there. For instance, many people believe that our concept of the world as a place where time passes in a straight line is inaccurate. They believe there is more of a cyclical nature to the world where things repeat. Other experts in the field believe that it is our reliance upon the five basic senses that leads to our being blinded to much of what is actually around us right now.

When you think about your life and the impact that moments of precognition may have had on you, chances are you have more of these powers than you ever realized. If you find this area of knowledge interesting, consider how you may already have some powers of this nature and explore your opportunities for making them even stronger.

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Friday, October 15, 2010

How To Show Your Support When A Loved One Passes Away

By Brad Romeo

Coping with a death in the family can be one of the most painful and stressful moments in a person's life. As with any passing, many loved ones might be devasted by the loss and in need of comfort and guidance.

It is really hard to see our love ones suffer. While they suffer the people around them could hardly bear to see them. This is more difficult than death itself.

A comforting hug and heartfelt sympathies can do wonders to someone dealing with a loss. It serves to remind them that although their loved one is gone, they are not alone in this world. Being there for your family, helping out with the funeral preparation and arrangement, is a solid way to show your support.

Dealing with a loved one's passing can be very uncomfortable. The transition from having them in your life to knowing there will never be a day again that you'll see them, is very hard. But everyone passes from this earth eventually. Just remember that it is normal to adjust to their absence. The important thing is your family needs you and you are there for them.

A great way of celebrating the life of the deceased is through flowers. When selecting a flower arrangement, choose one that best describes the person while they were alive.

For people who are active in life, you may want to choose daisies or lilies, while for those who are calm and reserve, a white rose may be the flower of choice. Spend some time to choose properly.

A death in a family is never easy, but it helps to remember, that life is temporary. Each of us will eventually leave this earth.

What's important is to give each other love and support and to do what your loved one would have wanted. That is, to go on living.

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Examining When Will The Man's Rule End Becomes More Important As Time Passes

By Evelyn Chen

Far too many prophecies and predictions sync together in regards to when will the world end. It's actually somewhat frightening when investigating the many prophecies and how they so clearly describe the end of the world. It's as if, we're being given a chance to survive this upcoming transformational event. What's interesting....is that we can.

The infamous year 2012 is right around the corner....a date commonly assigned to when the world will end, causing more and more people to become aware of this approaching date. The irony of how a five thousand year calendar, developed by a very intriguing mathematically advanced civilization. The Mayans, who were known for their mysterious abilities in evaluating the of stars and has developed a 5125 year calendar that is set to end on December 21, 2012. A date that the Mayan people predicted, over five thousand years ago, that the world will begin to re-set itself.

There is no book more famous than the Holy Bible, which devotes a whole section to end time prophecy known as The Book of Revelations. Many people find it hard to interpret the meaning behind what is said however, it's description of the end times is uncanny when relating to today's modern technology. It points out about a mushroom cloud that will darken a third of the world. Additionally, how it so closely describes today's jet planes...."They had breastplates like that of iron and the sound of their wings were like many chariots rushing into battle". Two thousand years ago predicting such machines is uncanny.

Who hasn't heard of the famous Nostradamus, who became infamous regarding the mystery behind his many predictions that came true decades after his books were published. One prediction in particular, described a solar event (known as the Winter Soltice) that will cause devastating results to the Earth causing a transformational event of such magnitude not seen since the days of Noah. You will also discover the irony of how even modern day astronomers are predicting a solar event that will have unknown consequences on the Earth.

These many predictions and how they land together on common ground to predict that we are approaching the last days for modern day man. But, in further study of these prophecies you will discover that there is some hope. They are not necessarily describing the extinction of mankind but, more regarding a transformational change in the way we live our lives. By studying these prophecies, you too may find that there is a means to survive these end time predictions. Therefore, providing us time to prepare for survival for the end of the world.

What makes these predictions so very fascinating and frightening at the same time, is how they all appear to agree in timing to this transformational event. With the year 2012 quickly approaching, there are more and more people taking the time to do some investigative work to determine the validity of these prophecies. Additionally, as more commonalities surface within these ancient prophecies, they're finding that even today's events are beginning to provide support to what is expected to happen, You will discover the real truth behind....Swine Flu pandemics, signs of devastating natural disasters and the government cover-ups that are keeping this information from the public.

How ironic that so many end time prophecies have so much in common when predicting how and when will the world end. The infamous Mayan 5125 long-count calendar, The Hopi Indian teachings, Aztec Calendars, The I-Ching prophecies and even the most trusted prophecies of them all....The Book of Revelations in the Holy Bible.

With the many predictions pointing to today's times as when these events will begin to occur, there is a heightened concern as more and more people begin to investigate the evidence before us. There are some very frightening books and articles now surfacing that will literally scare you into believing and acting on what is to come. Those with credible investigating and keen insight to what is prophesized offer up a strong emphasis on the need for preparation....for it is believed that there is a possibility for survival.

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Thursday, October 14, 2010

Ideas On How To Reconcile A Shattered Relationship

By Gary Hawks

Breaking up a relationship is the most difficult thing one can do. It is most times a confusing and the most painful things a person can do. Most people will prefer going back to try and win the spouse back.

The relationship affair is a game however. It is very intense and trying to get back to your ex can be difficult. Having dedication alone won't be enough to achieve this. You must research other ideas to make sure you are able to achieve this however.

To get ahead of the game and win your ex back, you must make sure you take things seriously as the decisions you take can be serious and crucial for your life.

When you are absolutely sure that you want the relationship to work, you must dedicate enough time and effort into it. you must really fight for your man and this will take a lot of dedication.

Whenever you are pessimistic you will not get your boyfriend back. If you think that there is something that will not make you getting back your ex possible then you will end up not getting him back. You must be confident and know that you will be able to win him back.

You will not win him back immediately. You have to be patient and work on him patiently to attain the results you want. It is a game that rewards the patient and the one who is willing to go the extra mile.

Don't be too overexcited and think everything will fall into place straight away. You must calmly and carefully work on getting your boyfriend. If you have an expectation that straight away your man will be lose then you will end up disappointed and stranded.

Try to make your husband feel a little bit more special. Admiring your boyfriend will get him to take an interest in you again and make the relationship work again.

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Great Principles To Stay Happy

By Gabby Lark

Are you looking for the ways to stay happy? These suggestions will be valuable and really helpful.

First, remember that only you can make yourself happy. Therefore, pay attention to the good aspects of your life, and focus less on the negative stuff. Be happy, as Barney would also suggest.

Did you make anyone smile today? It is proven from research that smiling help reduce tension, improves the immune system functioning, makes you look much younger and puts you in a good mood. Making someone happy will do a world of good to you. It will make you feel good about yourself.

Make time and go for a walk. Walking reduces the body fats, enhance brain functioning, improves blood circulation, controls the blood's sugar content and helps do away with PMS signs.

Make vegetables and fruits part of your diet. Eating them reduces the likelihood of chronic diseases, certain cancers and strokes. They also reduce the calorie intake. Thus helps in controlling weight.

Make time for reading. It is a good past time. That allows you to enhance your knowledge and vocabulary. In addition, it improves your ability to focus and memory skills.

Get in touch with your friends. Sharing lessens your burden. Friends are those people who are always there for you even when you feel left out.

Try and spend time with someone more than seventy years of age or under 6. You have much to learn from the elderly and their wisdom. The honesty, simplicity and care free attitude of children offers great respite from stress.

Indulge in games. Games help you socialize, help in the development of skills, enhance mental functioning and improve vocabulary. Thus, games allow you to have fun and learn a lot as well.

Finally, enjoy your life to the fullest. Live each day the best you could so that you do not have any regrets at the end of the day or your life.

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Observing The Law Of "No Contact" In A Relationship

By Kate Garringham

This article tries to discuss how effective the no contact rule can be used to draw your ex back to you. When used appropriately the no contact rule will work miracles and get you back to your ex in no time at all.

The no contact rule is the most effective way to get to reunite with the people you love once again.

There are some few rules that must be followed though if you want the no contact rule to work. The first thing is to be away from your ex. Though you may still feel the need to be around your ex, always try and overcome this feeling and stay away.

The most common thing that happens when couples break up at first is to throw thing at each other. This can be dangerous and even further distance you. The no contact rule is effective in keeping you away from this awkward situation.

The no contact rule will keep the both of you distant. This might be difficult since you will both realize you miss each other. You may realize that you have each other on your minds. The no contact rule will however give the two of you time to clear up your thoughts.

When we are in a relationship, we tend to ignore certain feelings. We take them for granted and just continue with our life. The no contact rule however gives you time to reflect on all those good times you had with your ex boyfriend and notice these feelings.

The no contact rule increases the craving couples have for each other. It gives them time to miss themselves and realize that though tough time may come their love will still remain nevertheless.

The no contact rule is effective and efficient. It is also free of charge and it can be used to draw your ex back to you in no time at all. This method works all times and will work for you as well.

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Saturday, October 9, 2010

Experiencing The Magical Power Of Testimony

By Christian Wong

Not long ago, I shared three stories of miracles in the Mahesh and Bonnie Chavda's church. A Brazilian brother drove me back to the hotel from the church. After a meeting, on the way he drove me back to the hotel, he told me that he just received a call from his sister in law who is in Brazil. She was watching that night's meeting on the computer. When she heard the stories of a boy and a girl who both had malformed legs getting healed, she call her daughter.

After she had listened to the teaching and the following stories, her faith is stirred up. Her daughter is a lovely little lady who had malformed legs. This often made her very embarrassed because people on the street would stare at her. The mother called her daughter in her bedroom.

The daughter didn't know about the conference or anything about divine healing. She came out of her room according to her mother's instructions. She took off her shoes and walk towards her mother. As soon as she did so, her legs are healed and become straight as normal legs! This is done by the mother's faith which is released by the power of testimony.

Sharing testimonies provide the opportunity to multiply miracles. The witness of God's work rises up faith to believe that God will work on others also. Whenever this happens, a door to the same power is opened. If the listener would exercise their faith and step into it, things will be shifted and miracles will be manifested.

In many occasions like this, there were no one laying hands or praying for the sick. Sometimes they are not even in the same room. And many testimonies can be chased back to one breakthrough miracle. The above story is one of them.

If we take all the testimonies that people in our church witnessed and make it into a book, it would be a really big book. We are still seeing increase in these encounters, because we believe in the power of testimonies.

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A Few Great Advice For The Family Of A Cancer Patient

By Cheska Montgomery

Having a friend or family member diagnosed with cancer can be a real life rattling situation. Here are a few points that should help to keep you grounded through such a situation.

1. Know that it is totally not your fault- The cancer was not caused by any of your actions so you do not have to set yourself on a guilt trip.

You have to let that thought go and focus on how you can help them fight it.

2. It is not your duty to heal your friend or family - As a parent who has a young one recently diagnosed with cancer, there is no doubt that you will have to make some very important decisions about how the doctors will proceed with the treatment. For those who are older they will have a team of professional health workers that will give them all the advice that they need on how to proceed.

The only other thing that you can do about the goings-on is to be there for them morally and financially if possible. You do not have the power to heal them.

3. Cancer does not replace your loved one with somebody different - It is of course a challenge to battle cancer and you will see some changes in the person both physically and personality wise. This however does not mean that you have lost the person that you once knew and had them replaced by somebody else.

4. It is not a mistake to feel like you need some help and support yourself - You too will have challenges in your path that were not present before just like your loved one with cancer. It is totally reasonable for you to also seek some counseling to help you deal with what lies ahead.

5. There is still a lot that you can achieve for them - A lot of people always view the situation as hopeless and think there is nothing that they can possibly do to help the situation. Even small things like the words you speak out to them can encourage them enough to beat their cancer.

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Friday, October 8, 2010

Tips For People Who Just Recently Went Out Of A Relationship

By Jane Melby

Have you recently been dumped by someone you love? Has it left you feeling that you'll always be alone?

Take heart, you're not alone. Most of us have been through a breakup at one time or another and have learned to how get through it. You may feel like hiding under the covers all day, but you should know that the pain will eventually subside. Here are a few things you can do to make the transition happen quicker.

Many people find solace in writing down their feelings. They express their thoughts and feelings in daily journals. This helps to them to understand what they are feeling and get over it.

Writing is a good way to get out the emotions that can be bottled inside. It lets you legitimize them by putting them in writing. That way you can acknowledge them and then move on when you're ready.

When you go through a breakup your daily responsibilities may seem secondary because of the pain you're going through. However, if you direct your attention to those issues you will focus and be able to put things into perspective.

An effective technique for getting over loss is "controlled grieving." In this method you give yourself 15 to 20 minutes once or twice a day to think about the relationship and feel the pain associated with the breakup.

This helps you to be able to focus on whatever else is going on in your life for the rest of the day. Find ways to distract yourself from your former relationship. Talk to friends, visit family, exercise or try a new hobby. They will help you to distance yourself from the past.

You may realize that you've been looking at the relationship with a distorted eye. And now that you're not in it, you find that you can see things more clearly. Your romantic partner probably wasn't the catch you always thought he was and you are better off with someone else.

When you feel a bout of sadness coming on, try to remember the "not so perfect" things about your ex and it will help the healing begin.

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