Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, April 26, 2019

Benefits Of Having A Virtual Memorial Website

By Mary Roberts


It is usually so saddening and heartbreaking when we lose the people we love. When a loved one passes on, it can be so hard to move on from the stress that you get. This is the time you need support from friends and other family members. Also, you need to be very strong so that you do not become a victim of PTSD and depression. The best way to become emotionally strong is by allowing yourself to remember the deceased in any way you can. Therefore, creating a virtual memorial website can be very helpful. The benefits of thee sites have been listed below.

These sites usually have so many benefits to the bereaved. They allow people to participate in the grieving process even from a distance. People can grieve at any time of day and night. Scientists claim that publicly displaying your grief helps in quick emotional recovery after the bereavement.

The online site acts as a communication channel to the bereaved. This includes friends and family members. Thus, after all the formal events, people are still free to share what they feel on the page. This is important as it will help the ones who are most affected by the death of the loved one. Also, since the online space is inexpensive, people can write all the messages they wish.

These online grieving platforms can also give people the opportunity to keep the loved ones who have dies a part of their lives. Therefore, the bereaved can continue posting content and images on their walls on important dates like holidays and birthdays. Thus, the bereaved will continue to feel the presence of their loved ones who are no longer alive.

These online sites also help a lot when you are feeling low on a particular day. During these low moments, you can log in to the sites and pull up the page. Then, by going through the photos and messages, you will feel stronger and more stable emotionally. Doing this is even recommended by therapists and scientists as it helps a person feel better when he/she remembers the good memories.

If you have been left behind by a loved one and you would like to create an online site to honor him/her, the steps that you should follow are straight forward. The first thing that you should do is selecting the platform you would like to use. After that, write the story you want to tell about your loved one and post it on the site.

After that, you can invite friends, family, and workmates to the page. The invitation can be through an email or Facebook. Invite all the people that you like on the page. These people will then share or post their experiences and memories of your loved one.

After that, post pictures and share them with all the invited people. Do not restrain the people you have invited from sharing their memories and images as well. Allow them to post anything on your wall. This will help a lot as you will feel strong and supported.




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