Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, December 19, 2013

Different Styles For Gravestone Design

By Tom Tree


When making plans for one's burial, it is a common practice to have a commemorative plaque or some type of monument to place atop their interment site. Inscribed with the individual's name along with the dates on which they were born and died, and occasionally an epitaph, it is a way for one to leave their mark upon the world. There are literally thousands of design options for Graves Headstones.

Since the earliest days of man, burial sites have been marked by stones. The practice began with piling plain rocks together but as civilizations advanced, people started to decorate the markers by drawing or carving meaningful symbols, words, numbers or pictures on them. As time passed, these gravestones became a way to tell visitors to the site about the person who is buried there.

Baring the name, birth and death dates and possibly the special sentiments of the deceased, monuments of this type are generally placed at the plot's head. Plaques, low profile slabs, statues and variations of upright stone tablets are just the basic options available. These may be geometrically shaped, cut into symbolic designs like crosses and stars or even be formed as pedestals which can hold urns or other items.

In cemeteries worldwide, the most popular style is an upright granite tablet that is either free standing or perched atop a horizontal base. These are shaped as plain rectangles, have tops that are scrolled or domed, or they are cut into the shape of a religious or organizational symbol. It is common for couples or families interred in the same plot to share a single marker containing each of their information.

Some markers, such as the flush slabs and plaques, take on a more unobtrusive profile and make for easier maintenance. Bevels are a variation on this style, being thicker and elevating the rear edge a few inches higher than the front. Slanted forms take this a step further by making the readable surface lean at 45 degrees.

Gothic tablets are like the ones most commonly found in older cemeteries. They tend to be very ornate, featuring the curving scrolled lines and intricate angles and arches that were prominent in the architecture of period churches. Their classic beauty is as interesting and intriguing in modern times as it was in the days they were first introduced.

Creating impressive silhouettes and resembling sleek towers, obelisks are another popular design. Inspired by structures from ancient Egyptian times, these formations are often topped with pyramids, stars, angels or eagles. There are so many grave headstones options available, making it possible to create a beautiful monument to fit most any budget.




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