Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Burial Monument Design Style Ideas

By Tom Tree


Losing a loved one can be a very difficult thing for many people to deal with. In order to deal with the intense sense of loss and grief they experience, they need something to help them cope. This is one reason the right Grave Memorial is important because it not only honors the deceased but also provides a physical token for the living.

This is one reason it is so important that the perfect burial marker be chosen. It should reflect the style and personality of the individual whose life it represents as it is intended to be a monument to their life. The range of design options and material choices are simply staggering, which makes it easier to find something that is a fitting tribute.

Many types of materials can be used to create these monuments. This includes wood, concrete, limestone and marble as well as stainless steel and brass. While each of those substances have desirable qualities, granite and bronze stand above them all as the most commonly used mainly because these two are attractive and versatile, yet also durable enough to stand up to some of the worst climate conditions.

Many cemeteries place restrictions on the types of markers that are allowed, so this is a factor that one will need to consider when making their selection. Sometimes these regulations are in place as a way to keep the overall look neat and consistent, or it could be a matter of easy maintenance. Whatever the reasons, there are still many ways in which a gravestone may be personalized to the individual's style.

Granite is a material that provides the designer with many options. It allows one to step away from the regular grey stone and choose more vibrant hues like green, blue, red, pink, black and white if so desired. They may decide to keep the traditional matte surface texture or opt for a highly polished finish that shines like a mirror and holds an etching beautifully.

Details may be added to make the design more personal. This may mean having a favorite passage, verse or symbol etched into the surface. Many people find that the Victorian practice of incorporating a weather proofed photo frame into the monument is a truly inspired way to make the tribute special since it immortalizes the individuals likeness for generations to come.

Decals showing organizational memberships or military service may also be added. Other ways to create a unique grave memorial is to incorporate things like statues, planters, vases and benches into the design. Solar lights provide constant illumination for an extra special touch.




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