Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, April 12, 2013

Ways How To Break A Pornography Addiction

By Antje Govers


Most people think that to break pornography addiction, you can do so simply by avoiding exposure and resisting. However, this is what most try but fail every time so if you are among those people, you should know this. Unfortunately, pornography addiction is something that isn't easy to break and just like any other type of addiction, it is very hard to leave. By reading the following, we will guide you through the reasons why it is so hard, what are the effects of a porn addict and how you can find the proper treatment so you can break pornography addiction forever.[]

How Porn Addiction All Begins.Now most people would think that there isn't such a thing as porn addiction since you are not consuming any form of drug for that matter. However, there is a form of chemical involved which the brain releases when exposed to porn or other form of sexual content. They include neurochemicals such as dopamine, serotonin and nor-epinephrine. This is the trigger that can lead to a strong dependency to pornography and as much as it can have great benefits for a relationship, it can also cause serious harm and you will eventually have to learn how to break a pornography addiction before it is too late.

Most people start by watching mild or soft pornography but as they grow tired of it, they start to watch more graphic and violent sexual content this way they can satisfy their 'needs'.What Are The Affects Of Pornography Addiction.Now it may seem to most that pornography is just a harmless pastime but in fact, there is much more to it than that.

Like with many types of addiction, controlling this hard habit to break can be a big struggle but it has to start somewhere. If you determine that you are addicted to porn, enough for it to interfere with your daily life, stopping it should start nowhere else but from you. To help you with this matter, here are some excellent self-help tips that will help you break porn addiction.

Take advantage of the wide variety of software that you can use to filter out content from the Internet before it reaches your computer. These filters can be effectively used to prevent explicit content particularly pornography from getting to your computer. To do this more effectively, have a friend install the filter in your computer so you would not know how to disable it when you have some porn cravings.Keeping yourself busy is another great to ward off any desire to look at pornographic images. Go out, have fun, meet with friends, and do something that you like. Take on a hobby that you have always wanted to do. If you keep yourself busy, your mind will be filled with other things not relevant to pornography.

People become addicted to pornography because of the sexual pleasure they derive from looking and viewing pornographic images and videos. Sometimes, some people simply overlook their personal relationships and fail to realize that their sexual relationship with their partners is more important than spending the whole day looking at porn websites. If only you would take time to improve your relationship and increase intimacy with your partner, you will find that there is less or no need for you to get sexual pleasure from pornography.

Ask people at the local supermarket, or in your church, and you would think this was no more than a conundrum in some other city. But ask the people who see the truth - the local divorce attorneys - and you will dig up a far different answer. Recent surveys imply that as many as 60 percent of divorces cite pornography addiction as a chief reason for the divorce.Even though it is as common as being fat, for some bizarre reason, we can't speak openly about it. It is really strange when you think about it. Sex is used to promote everything in our culture. Food, cars, clothes, vacations. You name it. But when it comes to actual conversation about sex, people get all bottled up. The crazy thing is that porn in the US sells 3 times more than McDonald's in the US. We can talk about happy meals, and no one has a problem. But when it comes to talking about pornography addiction, not a soul wants to speak up.

As such, it isn't something that is very welcoming for most at first and most hardcore and explicit stuff is just downright disgusting. However, as they keep browsing the soft/mild content, they start having the need to look into more hard and violent sexual materials to keep up with their needs. The result is that they are used to very hardcore materials and what is actually real does not satisfy them. They no longer feel the need to have sex with their partner and would rather rely on porn instead. This is and very big problem.

The secret to these commercials being successful is that they have to leave the viewer wanting more. The advertisers have perfected the skill of creating craving in us.So the most natural thing is to want to see a little more. To want to fulfill the hunger that is produced. People are programmed to have a pornography addiction long before they ever start going to websites. And they don't even realize it.Our churches don't help this issue either. Rather than talking openly about this common issue, they have a propensity to defame the people involved. The not so surprising truth is that in a recent pastors.Com survey, 38% of the pastors admitted to having a pornography addiction!Until we can get real about this issue and just talk openly about how ordinary it is, we will in no way help people cure porn. It simply won't materialize in the dark. If we keep it a secret, it will just get worse and worse, and we will continue to see families fall apart.




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