Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Healing Yourself After The Death Of A Relative

By Helen Price


It is never easy to deal with the demise of a loved one, especially if your family is a closely-knit one. Depending on the gravity of the situation, there are those who find it easy to acknowledge the reality that a family member has already passed away, while others will need more time to heal from the loss.

It's vital that you give yourself sufficient time to grieve, which is an essential part of the healing process. It is okay to spend time alone if you think that it's the best way for you to handle your loss. But remember that in doing this, you also have to learn to understand the present situation so that you may finally move ahead and just take pleasure in those happy times you and your loved one had together.

There are people who cope with their loss by reminiscing the good old times they had with the departed. A better way to do this is to share such wonderful experience and stories with other people so they will better appreciate how noble this person was when he or she was still alive. This will greatly help you in facing the fact that death is actually an inevitable part of everyone's life and by this, you then shall be able to overcome any hard feelings you may have towards the situation.

It's okay to say "yes" to any help that is offered to you which may be in the form of coordinating with the Funeral director Singapore memorial services firms offer as their representative. Knowing a person dear to you has already died can be stressful enough. It would be totally comprehensible to feel extreme exhaustion from attending to every detail of the Funeral Services Singapore families arrange for the deceased. So make sure to pay attention to your physical self too and take time to recharge your mind and body and be able to face this reality of life.

It could really be difficult to gain the courage to accept the aching truth that somebody you love has to depart this world. The hurt will be there, but only you can dictate how and when it will subside. Aim to be surrounded with friends, family and other people who matter to you the most. It can be through them that you may be able to rise above this tragedy and ultimately embrace and be grateful for the life that you currently have.




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