Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Funeral Services Practices Of Christians

By Anne Gable


When a person dies, Christians believe that God will judge them. Heaven and hell are waiting for them after their life on earth. Other Christians also believe in purgatory, a place where the dead go to if they had done forgivable sins. For Christians, a funeral is where family and friends gather to give thanks for and remember the life of the dead on earth. It is also where they grieve for the lost of their loved one. The Christian faith has many denominations. Each one practices slightly different funeral customs from the next.

For example, before the funeral, Catholic Christians keep a vigil, or a series of prayers, songs, and homilies for the departed. They may hold the funeral at the home of the dead, in a funeral parlour, or in a church. Catholic funerals may also hold a procession to the burial site from the church or the funeral home.

Meanwhile, Protestant Christians follow different funeral customs. There are similarities as well, dependant upon the denomination of the Protestantism faith. Many of them hold the funeral at a church or at a funeral parlour within three days of the death. Guests can contribute to the funeral by giving food and flowers. although playing of worship music is allowed, most Protestant funerals are formal and quiet events.

Most of the time, the disparities in Christian funeral practices also depend on the customs of a country. In Singapore, many Christians hold funeral wakes in a funeral home or an HDB block where the dead had resided or their family lives. funeral for Christians Singapore traditions also observe the rules of Catholic or Protestantism belief, but there are usually Singapore customs that are incorporated in the funeral.

Christian funerals, simillar to funeral services of other religions, are held with deference for the dead in mind. A priest or a minister officiates the mass or ceremony, and the wake is customarilly held within three to seven days after the death. Christian funerals are normally sombre affairs, but some sects encourage a happy celebration to remember the life of the dead lived. Visitors often offer assistance in the form of money or in kind. They are even urged to offer flowers, food, or, if applicable, donations to the chosen charity of the departed's family.




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