Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Granite Memorial Regulations and Guidelines

By Duane Kuss


The design and creation of a granite monument, headstone or memorial can seem just like putting together the pieces of a giant jig saw puzzle. One key part of the puzzle that only a few folk are mindful of has to do with the guidelines and rules of the cemetery in which your memorial will be placed.

Graveyard Rules & Guidelines

Each graveyard has different rules, tenets and regulations similar to what a City has for building a home as to what is authorized and not authorized. These rules dictate the size, shape and height of your memorial. Many graveyards are very tough about the scale of your memorial and understanding what these guiding principles are will many times dictate the range of options you may have in selecting your loved one's monument or gravestone. Unfortunately there are plenty of stories where a family designed, manufactured and attempted to deliver their memorial to the cemetery and were refused at the gate as the monument didn't comply with their rules and restrictions.

Some cemeteries allow above ground monuments and other graveyards require that all of the headstones be flat. Sometimes graveyards can have guidelines that dictate even the color and shape of a memorial. Only by getting in contact with your cemetery representative or your memorial councilor are you able to be sure as to what sorts of memorials are approved at a given cemetery.

Cemeteries many times have specific rules and rules re the base, height and width of a headstone, grave marker or granite memorial. If you are creating a memorial for your pet, the location your granite monument is placed will many times influence its practical size, shape and design.

Take A Cemetery Tour

A cemetery visit and tour can frequently be a great starting place in the midst of choosing a granite memorial. A drive through the graveyard and a personal trip to the location where your memorial will be erected can be particularly helpful. In this manner you get a first hand look at what types of monuments have been accepted during the past and what you may consider as design options that will conform with the stones already present where your memorial will be located. Your tour can also give you a first hand look at differing types of memorials and provide you the opportunity to choose the kind of things you like or detest based primarily on color, size, shape and the finish of the stones.

It's good to also plan a meeting with the graveyard manager to make sure you are current with any fresh changes that could have been made throughout the graveyard or most likely in the defined area where your memorial will be placed. Again, like Cities, cemetery rules and restrictions can change in time and ensuring you are current with these policies can help prevent the loss of time, effort and cash when matching your memorial with the rules of the specific graveyard.




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