Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, September 18, 2011

Five Ways A Psychic Reading Can Help Your Relationship

By Cathy Cox


Over the years of doing psychic readings here at Origin Psychics, talking to thousands of people, and observing relationship problems we have discovered that there are many ways that a psychic reading can help with relationships. In fact, a psychic reading can be so valuable that it can save and strengthen relationships just by revealing things to us that we were missing. Clients come in all the time asking for simple answers to questions like, "Why did she leave", but the psychic reading does more than answer one question. It produces a self-awareness that helps in all aspects of your life.

1. Psychic readings helps you to listen to your inner voice

Many of our relationship problems come from avoidance of listening to our own intuitions - what has been called our 'inner voice' our 'conscience' or our 'gut instinct'. Most often we don't listen to our inner voice because we are frightened of what it is telling us. It may be that your inner voice is telling you that you are repeating a past pattern in relationship. Are you desperately in love with someone, but your inner voice is telling you that situation is destructive?

The best part of this is that when we begin listening to our intuition we begin to confront problems as they should be confronted. When we do that we avoid the things we were so afraid of in the first place. Destructive relationships become positive relationships, we deal with our issues, and we don't gloss over things that are hurting us.

Psychic readings encourage the inner voice to be heard and teach you to trust yourself. You can face your fears when you are confident in your own abilities. The challenges in your relationship can be handled instead of feared.

2. A psychic reading helps you to let go of struggle and control

People who are considered controlling are thought of bossy, domineering, or over-confident. In fact, this is only one type of control issue. It's the overt kind. There are all kinds of ways that people try and succeed to control things everyday. However, a relationship is a two-way street that cannot be successfully controlled by just one person. Fear guides this type of control, and letting go of that fear through the help of a psychic will produce more positive results in your relationships. Instead of being emotional and forcing our partners to respond, we can use our inner-confidence to confront problems without controlling tendencies.

Control, however, is a big illusion. Most people who are controlling don't really end up controlling anything. The energy that is put into this desire to be controlling turns out to be a massive waste of time. Clients will call in and ask, "Why did they leave", but there's no easy way to say this. Controlling tendencies push people away.

A psychic reading will help the client to get tuned in to the flow of their relationship. You should be challenged to stop trying to get people to do everything your way. A psychic will help try to look at relationships through a different lens.

This can sometimes be a frightening process. We sometimes have to let go of deeply held beliefs from our childhood about what makes a happy relationship. But if you are open to the insight of a psychic reading, you can begin to feel much more in charge of you life, not because you are in control, but because you have confidence to cope and respond positively to the inevitable changes that occur within a relationship.

3. A psychic reading helps you to see the signs

Hectic lifestyles of the modern age produce people who have little time to do anything but east, sleep and work. There's no time left for feeling anything, and any time that is left over is spent in contemplation. There's never any true interaction about emotions. There are nuances that go unnoticed, and that can leave relationships unsatisfying. The subtle clues in your relationship can help you to get a better handle on what's going on. This only works if you slow down.

In our psychic readings we make a conscious intention to pick up on these relationship signs and interpret them. We look at the events and interactions and help a client to see what is meaningful and what is not -what requires attention and what needs to be put aside. So often relationships go astray because people focus on the things that reflect their own fears and issues rather than what is required to move forward. We can so easily get caught up in our habitual emotional patterns that we loose a sense of the bigger relationship picture. A good psychic reading helps to read your relationship correctly.

4. A psychic reading helps you to see your blind spots

The role of a psychic reader is to support the client and be empathetic. We'll never shy away from things that you really need to work on, but we don understand how you feel. Everyone has a blind spot or two that they need to be made aware of. Coming to a reading with an open mind and being receptive to the advice given will give you a chance to see your blind spots for the first time. You can see how others perceive you, and you can tackle those perceptions so that they do not hinder any relationship you may have.

5. A psychic reading will cause you to be much calmer and more relaxed

Most clients finish their readings feeling considerably calmer and more peaceful when they started. This is because Origin Psychics don't just do readings, but we see our role as relationship healers. Our tone of voice, our feelings when we are talking to you and our energy vibrations are all aligned to an intention to heal our client's relationships. We all know that when we vibrate stress, anxiety, anger or other negative emotions, then we tend to attract that to you us. Part of our role as a psychic is to help you to vibrate at more harmonious level.




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