Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, February 21, 2011

Tips To Move Ahead After A Split Up

By Jenny Pace


It is not easy to get dumped by your boyfriend especially when he seems to prefer someone else. It would give you doubts and self pity plaguing your very being.

There is no point in berating yourself after everything that has happened. You have to take control of the situation even if it is difficult and you are in emotional pain. Quit punishing yourself and start moving on.

Want to survive a breakup? Here are some tips on how to.

Having your heart broken should not be reason to go out with another person just "to forget things". Most people have the tendency to do this and get into a rebound relationship even though their heart is not ready for another one.

It is inevitable that your thoughts will keep on drifting back to your ex. You need to let go of your ex and the relationship first before healing will take place. Once you are ready, you can start going out on a date again.

A positive way of letting out the pain you feel is through writing. Break up poems are perfect to let out your pain and sad emotions. Writing is a good way to let go of whatever you are going through. Even if you will end up crying, you feel much better after you do.

Another important tip is never contact him. Show him that you are getting on well without him. It will definitely make him wonder how you could have moved on so easily.

Healing a broken heart is never easy. But life has given us the ability to survive even the ugliest and most painful experience. Go out with your friends and have fun. You can also go on a vacation. Try your best not to think of him and eventually, you will realize time is your friend. You have finally gotten over him.




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