Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, February 21, 2011

Advice Concerning Relationships: Harmonizing Romance And Friendship

By William M. Sosa


As people who got together because of mutual understanding there are times when couples get on other people's nerves and they do not even know about it. From a single's perspective, there are certain things that couples do that really irk those people around them. Here are some of them and what you can do to get out of that situation.

Couples usually think alike which is one of the reasons why they have this sort of unspoken understanding to each other. But, when they begin to morph into a single person. It is that time that you should try to ask your friend how it happened. Couples who begin to act as one person is most likely dependent on the other which can be a bad thing.

The next time you bring your girlfriend with you on your friend's Sunday barbecue do try to tell her that it is for your friends only and put an emphasis on friends only. The moment someone new comes friends easily become defensive and protective and that can easily put a wrench on the whole friendship.

Couples love to be intimate with each other but sometimes they do it right in front of friends who think they are comfortable showing their intimacy at. Friends can only take too much especially if you have single friends out there. Take the intimacy to the bedroom and not in front of your friends.

Respect others. Some couples have their own world and forget that they also have friends with them. Respect that you have people who also need to catch the train or someone is also waiting on the line. You are not the only people in the world.

Most couples are happy with each other and they want to spread that happiness that they begin to pressure you into dating. There is nothing wrong with being single as of the moment and couples tend to put the pressure on you in finding your happiness.

When we all get together, we tell jokes and we laugh about it. Sometimes, one of your friends tell some jokes and everyone scratches their heads while his girlfriend laughs out loud. What did you just miss? Inside jokes are the most annoying thing that can happen when you have your friends with you.

When your best bud becomes tied down to the girl of his dreams, expect to disappear from his desk or his weekly football practice at the field. Most of the time, people who are bound to a relationship will have problems with their schedule and your friendship simply drifts away.




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