Breakups are always emotional situations. However, the worst type is when your girlfriend dumps you. Especially when you think your relationship is strong and everything is going perfectly. The unexpected breakup comes across as a terrifyingly painful event.
Who knows, maybe you just did not see it coming. You ex girlfriend might have dropped clues before, or it might just have been a spur of the moment decision.
If you really were in love and want you girlfriend to come back then there is not much you can really do at this point in time.
Do not go after her to beg and plead and reason and convince her why you should get back with each other. Let her go, if you act like a desperado it will just scare her away further. So preserve your dignity.
Difficult though it may sound, leave her alone for at least two to three weeks if you so desperately want her back. You will be giving her a chance to get on with her life, without any contact with you, and this will eventually let all the good memories come back and the bad memories fade.
This is what you want her to remember when you meet with her again for the first time since the break. It might happen that you again fall in love seeing her.
While waiting for her to come round, try to improve yourself as much as you can. This will make a great impression when you next meet. Furthermore, mutual friends might tell her how well you are doing, so she will be aware of the positive changes in your life.
But most importantly, try to find out why she broke up with you in the first place so you can try to change that part of yourself.
Who knows, maybe you just did not see it coming. You ex girlfriend might have dropped clues before, or it might just have been a spur of the moment decision.
If you really were in love and want you girlfriend to come back then there is not much you can really do at this point in time.
Do not go after her to beg and plead and reason and convince her why you should get back with each other. Let her go, if you act like a desperado it will just scare her away further. So preserve your dignity.
Difficult though it may sound, leave her alone for at least two to three weeks if you so desperately want her back. You will be giving her a chance to get on with her life, without any contact with you, and this will eventually let all the good memories come back and the bad memories fade.
This is what you want her to remember when you meet with her again for the first time since the break. It might happen that you again fall in love seeing her.
While waiting for her to come round, try to improve yourself as much as you can. This will make a great impression when you next meet. Furthermore, mutual friends might tell her how well you are doing, so she will be aware of the positive changes in your life.
But most importantly, try to find out why she broke up with you in the first place so you can try to change that part of yourself.
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