Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, December 25, 2010

Aries Love Match and Compatibility

By Jamie Astrologer


Aries & Aries The Ram is absorbed to do issues in bursts of enthusiasm, so a brace of Rams calm may move from a first date to the chantry or at atomic for the bedchamber in the beginning. The Ram is generally a baton along with a avant-garde who loves to arrive first, or be at the arch with the queue. Thus, both are activity to be aggressive to appearance off for their beginning observed love or authenticate your wares, blab their achievements and avowal about their dreams at atrocious speeds. The affair of a brace of Rams can achieve in your intriguing alliance dance, but can turn into a antagonism within no time flat. If they lock their horns and end in a activity to prove who's best, the fires of affair will beam and bake several fleeces. It is no great having agitated abroad with activity if each alive in a various direction. Both are absolute persons and do not like activity endemic by anyone. Neither can abide being bedeviled by any person else, so they achieve their very own decisions, and absolute their lives on their own.They account one another's autonomy.Sometimes, however, there's too much accent on appearance rather than on being abutting and adorning the relationship. Ego is generally a ascendant thing inside the relationship.Both are acute to criticism. Nearly accordingly they will attempt with every other, and in tiny doses this is invigorating. But it simply becomes nasty, and one of them is probably to get hurt. Time and work is required to create this accord work.Its not a bout produced in heaven.

Aries & Taurus When the mighty Ram meets gentle Bull. they seem to obtain significantly in common, beneficial determination, point-blank honesty and an appetite for life. However, clear differences will soon emerge. The Ram's determination initiates and gets issues done, but the Bull will take their own time to try and do things, stubbornly resisting any work to push the pace. Aries periodically becomes gripped with an thought and needs to take in an immediate action to act on it. Taurus prefers to fully perceive the whole thought and respond to situations with a more practical and cautious attitude. If Aries ever stumbles or fails, then Taurus usually do not miss an opportunity to remind them of their shortcomings. This is infuriating to Aries and really detrimental towards the relationship. Appreciation of each other's numerous approaches will aid the relation grow harmoniously. Each needs to be in a position to adapt each other's kind or habits. Inside the process, Taurus can assist provide the reliability and consistent dedication needed to aid bring Aries 's ideas and impulses to a fruitful completion. This is a tricky match which will eat learning and adjustment by both. Fire and Earth is often a hard combination,which,however, may perhaps work well together with their joint determination, each being courageous and practical. But, if the mix does not gel, then they will walk away from each other. A single ought to remember to put in a great deal of efforts to produce this relationship work. Its a difficult match.

Aries & Gemini Gemini absolutely stimulates, Aries. As the issues of fire and air interact really explosively. Mars-ruled Aries finds an in a position and adaptable companion in Mercury-ruled Gemini. The enthusiasm and reckless courage on the Ram will have strong appeal for the restless and curious Twins. Each are active and on the go, and are additional interested in the offer than during the past. As soon as one thing has outlived its usefulness, they're in a position to part with it and you go on to a thing new and have a low tolerance for boredom. The combination also share a weakness in common: the inability to stick with issues such as projects and relationships when they come to be dull or problematic. Neither needs a incredibly clingy, dependent type of partner, and with a single another there's a particular quantity of independence that each enjoy. Sometimes the Ram will come to be impatient in the twins willingness to discuss an idea, and not very obtaining towards heart on the matter. Aries becomes abrupt, impatient, and tactless at such times. Under the circumstances, Gemini need to realize that Aries simply doesn't have a taste for conversation, and need to not rely as well a lot on Aries for daily conversation. Handled positively, Gemini can supply many a variety of perspectives on Aries 's impulsive ideas. Gemini requirements range and stimulation. The Twins will likely be faithful as extended as the Ram do not insist on getting the sole focus. Aries and Gemini get on well. Together they may perhaps start to consume the relationship for granted. It's effortless for either of them to seek fresh fields, as both appreciate the challenge of what is new and different. One ought to slow down and enjoy what the other has in this kind of a versatile and willing partner.It could be a perfect match.

Aries & Cancer At first, the attraction is intense, among Mars-ruled Aries, a Fire Sign, and Moon-ruled Cancer, a Water Sign.But they may perhaps soon occur to realize the intensity is based on points they don't understand about a single another.The bedroom lure is strong, but the rough Ram may possibly soon bring about the Crab to withdraw, who would often demand sensitivity and romance. Aries will probably be devoted on the demands of family members and friends. Cancer, on the other hand, is quite devoted to family members needs and also the inner, emotional needs of others. Aries may, without realizing it, selfishly accept Cancer's nurturing and giving attitude, while contributing fairly little for the relationship on an emotional level. Aries 's require for autonomy and independence usually conflicts with requirements for closeness, intimacy, and mutual dependency. Aries appears selfish, impersonal, and indifferent to Cancer at times, and Cancer might feel too needy and emotionally sensitive compared to Aries. However, Aries can understand compassion from Cancer, and Cancer can discover to become more independent, but it's most likely to become a rough road at times with a lot adjustment needed on both sides.

This match demands mutual respect and clear boundaries. Without them, the relationship will fall apart.Its not a so perfect match.




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