Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, November 4, 2010

Things You Can Try To Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Love You Again

By Brad Hersel

Are you trying hard to get your ex girl grooving with you once again and failing miserably? You are having your calls unanswered; your messages ignored and totally feel invisible. All this bothers you yet you really need to get talking with her.

It is quite obvious that there is a reason behind the silence. It is likely that she also has a ton of stuff to say to you but she does not even know where to start. She feels there will be sparks flying if you met.

For this same reason, you may agree that emotions are normally at fever pitch immediately after a break up. Your ex feels that it is not the right period to start holding hands just yet. She wants time to look at things from a different perspective.

If you want to win over your ex girlfriend once more, you should respect her opinion and let her have some time alone to clear her mind. You should not contact her. Stop bothering her and do not let it get into your mind. Use it in your benefit.

You should also take the time to heal. Before you can have any meaningful talk with your ex girlfriend, you have to be sure that the anger you once harbored inside you has died out.

Everything that you go blurting out to your friends regarding your ex. will always reach her, one way or another. Therefore, focus on the positives.

Your friends can be the agent of reconciliation in some cases. Therefore, the things that you say about her through your friends will likely get her to change her mind and hold you in high esteem.

Feelings will always strengthen and cause you ex to want to start talking to you. It will not be a big surprise if she calls you up for a chat. At that time, she is really missing you a lot and it is the perfect scenario to get things working once again.

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