Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Deciding Whether To Return To Your Ex Or Not

By Cecille Haynes

Put straight, no break ups are a good experience. Some break ups are more than others are. They will typically leave you disillusioned and bitter with life. You could be wondering whether or not your ex would want to work things back to normal after a break up like that. You can find this out without contacting your ex.

You should not try to hurry things up by making all the phone calls or ask him blatantly. You may end up doing more harm than good. You should allow your ex to have some alone time to recover.

Whenever there is a break up. Your memories do not disappear from you ex's mind immediately. There are feelings that remain lingering in your ex's mind. The same thoughts will cause someone to show signs of wanting to get back together.

Are there hopes of you ex coming back to you? Often, your ex might send you a text message with a casual message. This is a good sign that you still have a place in his or her mind.

Uncertainty is rife at this point. Nobody will have an easy time knowing whether to be cautious or not.

The best thing to do at that point is to respond to the message in a similar casual way. See what you ex will say in return. The messages are normally simple and tacit. They may be trying to show that they care about how you are fairing so far. It is normally an indicator that your ex misses you and still has some heart for having you back.

Once the reply is received well and a fresh message comes triggering a conversation, you are well on path. You are getting to feel comfortable with each other once again. Once people have established this rapport once again, they will start talking about whether it is possible to get back together again.

The million-dollar question is whether your ex still wants you. That caliber of a message should help you answer that properly.

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