Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, September 30, 2010

Child Custody: The Legal Side

By Virginia Hammerle

Family court was designed with the idea of keeping families together through a hard period in their lie. Family court usually happens when the family there is trouble in the family and they are being pulled apart at the seams because of divorce. The purpose of family court is to decide what is best for the children in an impartial fashion. The judge is trusted with their experience to make this decision as to where the child or children should live. This ability to give custody to one or both parents is a process that may take months.

Child Custody is the subject of these hearings and the process is designed in order to allow both sides to present their case. The judge will look at financial information, employment history, and various other aspects in order to determine the parent that can best provide for the children. The Child Custody hearings are intended to provide the best possible outcome for the children and this is why some cases have taken years. Credit history and opportunity for advancement in your current place of employment are also considered when determining what is the best possible living situation for the children.

The court may grant custody to one of the child or children to one parent or it may decide a shared custody agreement is the best option. If neither of the parents has a good financial history, courts generally grant custody to the mom. Dads are sometimes give some of the custodial rights, but conditions may be attached. Fathers that desire to keep their children will want to retain an attorney with experience in matters of family court. Hiring a good attorney is the primary difference between fathers who get custody and those who do not. Dads that feel their children are worth the money should hire the best attorney possible to present the case.

The most important part of a child custody case is to convince the judge that you have the desire to see the best for the child. The environment is tense and emotional, so it can be difficult for parents to convince a judge, making the work of the attorney even more important. Parents with the custody of the child often have the best bonding times.

Child Custody is important because you will shape the child as they grown; the environment they are raised in determines what type of person they become. This includes their ideas, likes and dislikes. If you want your children to become better people and love you more, it is important that you obtain the best legal services that you can find. You can even get free advice and this will allow you to determine the best way to handle your specific situation. Looking at details information may help to provide a more accurate expectation of results.

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