Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, June 5, 2010

In No Time You Can Have Your Ex Back

By Juanita Reyes

Breaking up is hard to do, no doubt about it. But getting back with each other is harder. However most of the people still maintain their feelings for their girlfriends a lot of time right after the break-up. So the question on how to get back your ex might not be such a big mystery after all.

You should foremost find out if he is seeing any other girl. If he does, is it serious? Or is he just trying to forget about you? It is known that after long relationships, guys are getting harder over the breakup than women. Persuade your former lover to go out for a cup of caffeine and talk about your former romantic relationship. Check out what his inner thoughts are. For sure you know him well enough to see if he is lying.

Take him somewhere meaningful for the both of you. Talk about fun stuff you used to do together, to make his realize that you haven't forgotten. Even though you might have had hard feelings for him at the moment of the breakup, it is known that every wound repairs in time. So you might want to get back your ex in no time.

This is why you need to know what to do and how to act. If he has found another woman and he is interested and serious about her you may have a hard tine convincing him to come back to you to make things work. If not, it should be pretty easy as he probably is still thinking about you too. However if the first case, make sure you don't break somebody else's heart while you are trying to heal yours. Be sure that this is exactly what you want before interfering. The girl he is seeing has probably nothing to do with it.

So don't make any step before knowing all the data as you might make a fool out of your self. There will be signs if your ex wants to get back together. Things have to evolve equally ways, love by abhorrence doesn't work. So if you want to get back your ex you have to be sure the cause is worth fighting for.

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