Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, June 9, 2009

You Can Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend by Dating Someone Else

By Ricardo d Argence

To win back ex boyfriend, try dating someone else! Your first thought is that that doesn't sound right! It sounds counter-intuitive and you're flat out not going to do it! Right? Well what if it's the right thing to do and by doing it you move yourself closer to getting back together with your ex boyfriend? Would you do it then?

Let me explain! When you've been dumped by someone you're still in love with, instinctively your first thoughts are to chase after them and to beg and plead with them to take you back. It's pretty much a mad panic on your part to get right back into the relationship before your ex boyfriend forgets about you and or meets someone else.

Well pretty much you need to understand that your ex boyfriend is not going to forget about you just because the two of you broke up. Plus if he still has strong feelings for you, just because he's dating someone else it doesn't mean there's no way back for the two of you. So there's really no need to panic!

So you need to take a break from the relationship. Completely. Let him do whatever it is he thinks he needs to do. Do not contact your ex boyfriend and let him think about what hes done, while youre thinking about it too.

Once youve made the decision to take this time away from your ex boyfriend, itll get easier. The next step is to put on your best outfit, call up your friends and go out and have some fun. Focus on having a good time and dont fall prey to the temptation to call your ex.

You may even meet someone you might consider dating. Dont hesitate thinking you really just want to win back ex boyfriend. Remember, youre taking a break, youre not in that relationship for the moment and youre free to date. If you think you can go out and have some fun with this new person, go ahead and do it!

You dont have to be serious about the guy. You probably want to tell him you just want to have some fun with him and that youre not ready for anything serious. Tell him you like him and just want to get to know him.

Dont do this to make your ex boyfriend jealous. Do it to have fun and take your mind off the problems in your old relationship. Be clear about this in your mind so that you dont let it get in the way of getting to know your new friend.

You never know, you might enjoy this new guy so much that you decide that getting back with your ex boyfriend is not what you want to do after all. Equally using this time apart to explore how you feel, can be a real way to win back ex boyfriend.

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