Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, June 17, 2019

Have You Lost A Loved One? Make Use Of A Virtual Memorial Website

By Frances Martin


When people we love leave us as a result of death, it painfully strikes us, and we are left sad and lonely. Nothing is so devastating like waking up, and the person you were connected with is lifeless. Even if the pain and void diminish with time, the duration it takes to move on and get used to living without the deceased will depend from one person to the other. Nevertheless, learn to accept that the loved one is dead, and you have to continue with your life in their absence. However, it may be challenging to do so, but having a way in which you can recollect the moments shared will fill you with strength and help you through the grieving process. That is why you need to create a virtual memorial website where you can share the memories and images of the departed.

It is normal to experience a void whenever death strikes and takes away your loved one, be it a friend or family member. However, when you develop an online lamenting site to help you mourn the dead, it enables you to gain strength, which is what you need during this hard time. Regardless of the location and time, you are able to grieve with others who are also lamenting the deceased.

Through this online platform, people who are mourning can get to interact. Thus, individuals can keep on sending their posts, even after the end of formal event. Considering that you may not be paying for space, the grieving individuals can post any content they desire.

Remember, these sites are less costly, thus if any price is attached, you as well can afford the webpage. People can get to discuss through this site. Besides, there are no degrading ecological impacts connected to this mode of grieving.

Individuals known to the departed are brought together through an online lamenting site. Given you share similar pains, everyone can share their memories through the webpage. It is through these reminiscences where you keep holding your loved one closer.

Whenever you feel deserted and sad, you can peruse through the online lamenting platform and read through the content posted by all those who happen to be saddened by the demise of the particular loved one. Even as backed up by therapists, these powerful messages can be your source of strength. Therefore, creating grieving websites should be recommended every time we happen to lose a loved one through death.

For this reason, you should not hesitate to develop an online site where you and other individuals who are known to the deceased can post their memories. These platforms help us to keep the dead close to our everyday life. However, you have to strive and pick an appropriate platform. Then develop content, create an album of all photos if any and share on the page.

After you are done developing the online grieving site, send invitations to other people who may be connected to the deceased. That will give them an avenue they can as well post their memories. Besides, you will not feel alone in this tormenting time. You will have others to walk with through the challenging journey.




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