Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, September 1, 2016

The Importance Of Positive Vibes And Wishes To Humanity

By Andrew Harris


Every day, people go through trying situations that can either break or make them stronger. These unfortunate incidences range from sickness, loss of loved ones, loss of job, failing in exams or even breakups from lovers. Anyone that can relate to such incidences feels frustrated as they tend to think that they may have failed somewhere. However, this does not mean that they need to give up. They can be encouraged to take matters positively using positive vibes and wishes from people who empathize with them.

People will often listen to everything they are told whenever they are going through a trying moment. That is why the speaker needs to use very kind words so as not to worsen what has already been damaged. Counselors and life coaches are specialists who have studied human psychology thus they feature as the best advisers. In other instances, the person can seek services from a spiritual leader to offer them words of wisdom.

Most counsellors or mentors always refer to basic ideas to help the affected person. For instance, they will ask the person to stay alone for a while so that they can see where they went wrong. Thereafter, they can be asked to let the past be the past. As they do so, they should not expect answers immediately. In the event of doing so, they should not strive to please anyone at the expense of their happiness.

Failure after the first or second attempt may discourage an individual from pursuing their dreams. Most successful people confess that they may have felt discouraged at some pint. However, this did not deter them from making more attempts up to the time they finally succeed. These individuals can act as sources of inspiration to people that are facing similar challenges.

Social media platforms are taking advantage of the mass involvement to send useful quoted to people. People have created Facebook pages, Twitter accounts an Instagram pages to send messages to people of all types. They find this platform useful since the most people tend to visit these pages more often as compared to the rest.

Scenarios such as murder attempts, rape ordeals and physical assault may cause psychological trauma on affected persons. Those who have survived these ordeals are often the best advisers since they have learned to accept their situations as they came. People will feel inclined to entrust them with their problems rather than counselors.

People tend to think that money solves everything. If that was the case, then rich people would live for long and lead happier lives than poor people. However, there are many reported cases of wealthy people checking into psychiatric wards and counselling sessions because they are facing emotional traumas.

Even though trying moments are there to keep people strong, no amount of words can explain the pain that one could be feeling at the moment. This person relies on people that are mentally stable to guide them through the healing process. Words of wisdom are often used by counselors or pastors to reassure them that life must go on.




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