Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, October 5, 2013

Marriage Counseling Option Offered By A Naples Psychologist

By Ivy Catubig


Couples who want to preserve their relationships and make them stronger should schedule an appointment with a reputable Naples psychologist. These providers show people how to peaceable solve problems in their unions and to get bond together when facing major challenges. This is also a great way to learn how to communicate better and enhance and increase intimacy.

Some people are not happy with the idea of talking to therapists about their marital issues. They are committed to keeping their private lives private. These environments, however, are both safe and confidential and they allow people to talk about issues that they do not routinely discuss in their homes.

Actively listening to one another is an essential part of good communication. More often than not, each partner is so committed to being heard that he or she is not actively listening to the other person. Everyone has the opportunity to speak in these settings and to discuss his or her feelings, goals and and hopes concerning the relationship.

It is also important for people to start communicating what they feel, rather than expecting the other person to simply intuit emotions. This eliminates a lot of misunderstandings that can be very problematic. In addition to listening better, both partners will also learn effective strategies for making their feelings known.

There are many instances in which one person has placed far too much pressure on the other, simple because he or she is not happy individually. When two people are leading lives that are gratifying and happy, the union only improves upon their contentment. Thus, not only is it good to address the problems that couples are facing together, but many therapists also talk to individuals about their own past traumas, current social activity levels and personal goals.

Parenting is often the most important subject that a Naples psychologist covers in these visits. A lot of married couples disagree about different aspects of child rearing, such as discipline. Talking over these issues in a comfortable setting is important for reaching a fair compromise and for improving team parenting skills.




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