Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, December 1, 2012

How To Attain Reliable Grief Counseling

By Faye Hunter


In the event of the death of a loved one of a close friend, one is usually left in great sorrow as in many instances one fails to imagine how life there after is going to be like. There are instances where people commit suicide as life becomes sour and torturous to them. In an effort to avoid this one needs to seek the help of all the people they can access. In order to attain good grief counseling NJ occupants should not hide they pain. This allows the experts to effectively offer assistance as they have knowledge on the problem.

Discussing problems always make them to fly away. One should never doubt the power of sharing difficulties. This thus should be a major consideration for anyone who is suffering in silence. When one talks to others they share their pain and thus it is lessened from their hearts. People who do not talk always find themselves with heavier mental burdens than those who discuss with the right people.

It always pays to share the experience with a well trained and experienced counselor. The end results of doing this are very positive to the client. The experts always find a way of making their clients feel okay regardless of the issue. This therefore should be a consideration for those looking to end their pain and sorrow in the shortest time possible. The expert gives good advice and also shows that client that it is not the end for them and life still has so much to offer.

Death is a natural occurrence. This means that however we love one another they will die when their time comes. This should boost the morale of the grieving person as they are sure of their own death. They should for this reason find strength within themselves to move on as life cannot stop at the death of their loved ones. One should put in mind the many things they need to achieve and get the courage to move on from these.

Holidays and vacations are a good way of getting away from the stress and agony of a loss of a loved one. One for this reason needs to consider this fact during their time of mourning. The results of doing this are likely to be beneficial as one gets busy with other gainful and fun activities thus forgetting the loss. It thus should be a good point of deliberation for those looking to end their sorrow.

Getting together with other people who have been affected by the loss always works in dealing with the issue. It always is advisable that one seeks the audience of those who have been equally hit by the tragedy. One thus gets too talk about their feelings with those feeling the same way and the burden is shared.

A wise person considers keeping the memories of the departed person out of their reach until they have healed. This goes a long way in forgetting the person as they are not constantly reminded of them. In return the recovery process is faster and therefore less painful.

In order to attain favorable grief counseling NJ occupants are advised to engage competent experts for the very best outcomes. This allows one to ease the pain as they discuss with good persons their pain. It this also ensures that one does not bear the pain for a long time.




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