Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, March 26, 2012

The role of Counseling

By Xander Davenport


We are now living in an environment where counselling isn't just for those that are psychologically unwell. Today, many people and families undergo pro help so that they can handle their lives better. There are so many individuals that are going thru so much emotional difficulty and they find comfort in the fact that they have somebody they can turn to when things are coming apart.

We see relationships fail nearly everyday as the couple can't endure their relationship difficulties. Many of us may know people who are dealing separation/divorce. Many of us could have parenting issues that've been bothering us for some considerable time. And when things are truly hard for you to address, it is not wrong to ask a counsellor to help.

Counsellors help people who are hurt, annoyed or have an overpowering feeling because of a problem. They help people that are experiencing intrapersonal problems such as mood aberrations, addictions or anxiety. These counsellors have in-depth information regarding the feelings and circumstances that people face. They know the best way to handle any type of problem in the absolute best way. Their goal is to make you talk about things that you usually hide.

The things you talk about to your counsellors are those you wouldn't like to share with folks. And since the purpose of consulting a psychologist is to assist you in beating your emotional issues counsellors make you talk in a certain way, so that you discover yourself being cosy in sharing your intimate things. They know the approach that they must use so that you'll be at ease whilst in the session.

Psychological counselling will only be successful if you admit that that there is a thing wrong and you are ready to be helped. It is important that you open yourself and let a person make you understand the situation in a different perspective. You have so much burden that you carry; it couldn't hurt if you pass some of it to someone whom has better knowledge to assist you.




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