Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Skills And Personal Qualities Needed For Undertakers

By Anne Gable


Undertakers' or funeral directors' task is to make preparations for funeral services and other associated needs and responsibilities. To achieve success in this profession the undertaker performing these duties must have certain important and unique skills and attributes.

As his services may be required at any time of the day, an undertaker must be ready to work at odd hours too. He must be ready to work away from his workplace as the task requires him to be at the place where he is needed.

To become an undertaker, a person should be able to communicate well and be open to the opinions of others. People from various cultures, religions and ethnicities as well as those of any age will have to be handled with aplomb by him. Understanding and sympathy will be of much importance as he performs his job. But he will have to offer support to the bereaved family and must remain strong and mentally detached to be able to do so.

Although the job is by nature sombre and serious, the undertakers must bring dignity and serenity to the funeral service instead of more grief or sadness through their demeanour.

Undertakers should have extensive knowledge and profound respect for the religious beliefs and sentiments of various cultures and communities. As various people follow various funeral customs and methods, it is better to have understanding of these.

A good undertaker will naturally possess good organizational skills and managerial abilities. He should also have leadership skills and must be able to interact with a wide range of people - from the clergy members to the flower seller.

As the undertaker will be in charge of getting all clearances and following all regulations with respect to the event, he will need to thoroughly know such procedures and legal formalities. He will have to be fully conscious of rules to be followed with respect to obtaining death certificates or claims for insurance.

Finally, he must necessarily be able to and be qualified to drive vehicles such as hearses and limousines during the funeral service.




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