Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, December 1, 2011

Minimize Stress By Trying These Simple Suggestions

By Andy McDonald


In the fast-paced world of today, more and more people are finding themselves stretched thin and stressed out. Even wading through the mountains of information on stress can cause additional tension instead of releasing it. This article will provide a simple list of easy tips and tricks you can use to start releasing the weight of stress on your shoulders.

If you are in a relationship, go out for a romantic, candlelit dinner with the person that you love. This will help you to focus on that person and enjoy the moment, instead of thinking about things that have happened in the past or are going to happen in the future.

One great tip for relieving stress is clearly know and define your priorities in life, as they will help you stay focused on what must be accomplished. When you lose sight of your goals and priorities, you will become unfocused, confused, and go off track, which will easily result in stress.

A good tip that can help you keep your stress levels down is to simply look into getting an answering machine for your phone. By having an answering machine, you won't have to worry about answering calls right away. You'll always know who called and what they want.

Act as if you are feeling great. Mind over matter is a powerful thing and also acting as though you are feeling good tends to help put things into perspective as you realize that things are not as bad as they seem. Have fun because life is too short to concentrate always on what is going wrong.

Enjoy a pet. The mere act of petting a soft animal can be enough to take the edge off any stress you are experiencing. You can also learn a lot from the way animals act: they live for the moment. Having an animal or two around can relax and soothe you so that you can cope better.

If you're stressed out, here's a unique tip that actually works! Try standing by a stationary wall, place your hands on it and push with all your might, digging your feet into the floor. The exertion and the stretch in your hamstrings are very effective in relieving stress.

To lower your stress levels. make sure you exercise at least three to five times each week for thirty minutes each session. The exercise can be anything from running and swimming to simply a daily walk. Exercise has the benefit of releasing endorphins, chemicals that enhance your mood, making it a great way to de-stress at the end of a hectic day!

Stress can have a tremendous effect on the amount and types of food that we eat. We may have the tendency to gorge on junk food when we are stressed. Our stomachs may be so upset by the stress that we can barely eat anything. Either reaction is potentially dangerous. Minimizing your stress level can radically improve your dietary choices.

A good tip that can help you keep your stress levels down is to simply look into getting an answering machine for your phone. By having an answering machine, you won't have to worry about answering calls right away. You'll always know who called and what they want.

A great tip that can help you keep your stress levels down, is to simply give someone a hug. The physical act of giving or receiving a hug is one of the best ways to keep your stress down. You'll feel nothing but warmth and you'll notice that you aren't as anxious.

Stress can cause you seriously bad health problems. It can lead to heart attacks or some other kind of organ failure because your organs cannot function under extreme pressure. Think about your priorities and keep your health at the top of that list as you try to rid your life of stressful things.

A great tip that can help you keep your stress in check is to listen to soothing music. There are many different genres of music that can have a calming effect when you listen to them. Enjoying a little bit of this music from time to time can help a lot. It is a great alternative to the unending bad news you hear on most radio shows.

Stress ends up to be in certain parts of the body more than others, residing there and building up. One of the places stress can build up is in the teeth and face. Stress puts strain on your face and also your teeth, causing certain people to grit their teeth.

It is important to remember that stress is not only unpleasant, but also unhealthy. When you are stressed out your body loses its ability to run effectively and efficiently. By taking the time to apply the tips you learned here, you can relax and unburden yourself of the weight of the world.




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