Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, August 12, 2011

Why Low Self Esteem Symptoms Can Affect your Life

By Yolanda Tutter


When a person has low self esteem, he or she will suffer from several symptoms that can potentially change his or her life forever. If you think that you have low self esteem symptoms, then you have to do something about it immediately. Although there is no miracle cure or a pill that you drink to make this go away, you have to. It will be a hard and long task to overcome this but it will all be worth it. Why you ask? Well, first you have to look at the symptoms to understand.

Simply put, low self esteem symptoms can affect your life in more ways than one. If you do not have enough self-esteem and confidence to be who you are, then other people will not be able to take you seriously. In the end, you will not be able to accomplish anything.

One of the most dominant signs of this condition is when you have repressing feelings towards other person. This can reveal in the form of selfishness, becoming assertive, or essentially getting extremely pessimistic.

Another very important sign is if you don't like who you see in the mirror, how can you convince other people that you are likeable? For example, in an interview, how can you convince the interviewer that you are right for the job when you don't even believe in yourself? This is one of the low self esteem symptoms that can affect your professional and social life at the same time.

One of the most common low self esteem symptoms is personal boundaries. When a person has little to no self-esteem, he or she feels obliged to say yes to about anything. When someone demands something from this person, he or she would immediately say yes even if it steps over the person's personal boundaries. This can lead to varying degrees of damage to a person's life.

And the last one, in relation to not being able to accept who you are, you also end up not having any friends. You do not have enough courage and confidence to face other people. You can't seem to go out with them and interact. If you do get into a social activity, you feel very uncomfortable. This is not because you don't like the people, but you feel that they are judging you.




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