Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, July 11, 2011

There Is Domestic Violence Help Dallas For Those Who Need Support

By Adele Bolton


It is very important to know if you are in an abusive relationship. Many women are, but don't realize it. Their idea of abuse is often a picture of a man slapping them around. Although this is one form, there are other ways that women are abused. Sometimes it is difficult to identify because it happens so gradually. Domestic violence help Dallas is available for women who feel they are living in a unsafe relationship and want help getting out.

This kind of behavior is more common that many people think. There are many kinds of abuse and all of them are unhealthy for the ones involved. Many find that they're being controlled by their spouse in one form or another. It may be that they are being pressured to dress a certain way or to behave in a way that is unnatural for them.

Many abusers manipulate their partner and make them feel that they have no choice in a situation. They may be expected to hand over their money or perform a certain way sexually. If it is something that is uncomfortable and only done because they feel they have to, then they are being emotionally abused.

Emotional abuse is something that happens to many women, but because it is not physical, it is difficult for them to really identify what is happening. This can come in the form of name calling, humiliation and punishment. Even though it doesn't leave a mark on their bodies, it is still abuse and should not be tolerated.

It can sometimes be hard to see when physical abuse actually begins. A relationship usually starts off as a peaceful, loving union and then grows into one that is more violent. It many start as a slap or push that is laughed off and eventually turns into a situation that can be very dangerous. Once this cycle begins, it continues over and over again.

It is important to know that there is support available and they do not have to tolerate this kind of behavior. Finding a support group to lead and encourage you through all the difficulties of trying to understand the cycle of abuse and why it happens is very important. For those who have children, they risk their daughters and sons growing up to be abused or become an abuser because they are taught that this is how a relationship works.

Abused women do not have to live this way. There are many classes and support groups that are available to help those who have nowhere to turn. Finding good support for yourself and your children is the first step to getting back your life and learning to live in peace. Domestic violence help Dallas can provide information on all the resources that can encourage a woman move on.




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