Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, July 22, 2011

The Services And Rites Of A Catholic Funeral

By Kate Calvin


The funeral services and rites of the Catholic Church have seen certain changes since its early period. Cremation and the idea of body resurrection are only some examples. Traditionally, cremation was strictly prohibited unless it was necessary due to an infectious disease. Now we see several Catholics who prefer cremation over a traditional burial.

Catholics have three distinct rituals for funerals. The first is the vigil or wake, next is the mass, and then there's the burial. The wake is the time for mourners to give respect to the dead as they gather to show consolation to the family. It is sometimes held in a house, a church, or a funeral home.

The funeral service or mass, on the other hand, is normally led by one or more priests who wear black, white or violet vestments. The traditional requiem mass is similar to other Catholic masses aside from the fact that incense is not burned at the designated points, nor is the kiss of peace exchanged. Music is an essential part of Catholic funerals. During earlier times, secular songs were not openly accepted for a funeral service.

But today family members and officiating priests have the liberty to pick any song for the requiem mass, for as long as the song is inspiring and optimistic. Eulogy was not initially part of traditional Catholic funeral services; instead this was part of the vigil conducted before the service or during a gathering after the body was finally laid to rest. Today eulogy is allowed in some parishes for the mourners to give short recollections after the communion or before the closing rites.

The last part of Catholic funeral rites is the burial, which always takes place in the cemetery. There has been an increasing number of people opting for cremation, but many Catholics still prefer the burial of the body. A priest generally leads a short ceremony by the graveside before the dead is finally laid to rest. After the body has been buried, the mourners will then gather together and share a meal.




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