Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, April 7, 2011

One Way To Make Your Ex Give Your Relationship A Second Chance

By Christopher E. Taylor


If you have been undergoing a breakup in your relationship, it should be cause for you to do something about it. Maybe you would like to have another go at repairing your partnership. Thinking of it could make you imagine that it is quite impossible but there is hope for you. Here are some things you could do to get your ex back.

In order to get your ex back, you will need the correct mindset. Quit fixing your eyes on the negative issues and start looking for ways to address the problems and have a better relationship once you get your ex back.

The "cost and rewards theory" has been formulated to show the partners in a relationship what it takes to keep the partnership going strong. Each partner will look for the benefits they can derive in a relationship, so they will evaluate the cost and rewards.

Needless to say the rewards ought to be greater than the costs to keep each partner happy. If the order is reversed, then it becomes too costly to keep the relationship going smoothly.

Use this theory to work for your relationship, whereby you ought to make the rewards outweigh the costs. It makes the relationship become more attractive to both partners. The higher the rewards, the more interested your partner will be in the relationship.

Here then it the point where you should be asking: what is the role each partner should play to add more value to the partnership? Values such as trust, loyalty, security and happiness are very important so you must work on them seriously.

After this you need to consider the costs in the relationship. These may need that you make a few changes on your side. Look at the lifestyle, personality and attitude you have.

When you use cost and reward theory to evaluate the relationship, you will be able to maintain a good and warm relationship when eventually you get back with your ex.




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