Is there a credible means of measuring whether the foundation of your relationship really is stable and everything is working for you? The truth is that there is no way to get this information. Normally, by the time you are aware that things in your relationship are going down; your relationship is already half past over.
People will normally let things slide whenever they are injured for the first time. When the relationship hurts, many people seek to hide under the false security of compromise rather than break up. This is a sure recipe to ensure that the cycle repeats itself.
If you think about it, what other explanation is there as to why somebody will want to carry on in an abusive relationship, other than for reasons to do with love? The reasons that may come are normally self serving or one sided. There are a few others who are in toxic ones but do not admit.
Staying in toxic relationships is a ticket to self-ruin. Why would anyone willingly continue to be in selfish relationships like these? It is a sign of desperation to be in a relationship.
Sometimes it is wise not to be blind to the reality. Do you really accept that you are the lesser one who deserves constant abuse from someone who claims to love you? Therefore, by virtue of rising to the occasion and saying enough is enough, you will be displaying strength.
No matter how many excuses and reasons you can conjure up, there is no worth in staying with a partner who abuses you. It is pretty useless to change him at this point.
Do not even be sucked into his circle of friends. Total redemption will require you to stay away from even his friends.
For those who you felt were really genuine people, you can just explain to them that it is nothing they did wrong to deserve that. Let them know that you are only concerned about safety.
People will normally let things slide whenever they are injured for the first time. When the relationship hurts, many people seek to hide under the false security of compromise rather than break up. This is a sure recipe to ensure that the cycle repeats itself.
If you think about it, what other explanation is there as to why somebody will want to carry on in an abusive relationship, other than for reasons to do with love? The reasons that may come are normally self serving or one sided. There are a few others who are in toxic ones but do not admit.
Staying in toxic relationships is a ticket to self-ruin. Why would anyone willingly continue to be in selfish relationships like these? It is a sign of desperation to be in a relationship.
Sometimes it is wise not to be blind to the reality. Do you really accept that you are the lesser one who deserves constant abuse from someone who claims to love you? Therefore, by virtue of rising to the occasion and saying enough is enough, you will be displaying strength.
No matter how many excuses and reasons you can conjure up, there is no worth in staying with a partner who abuses you. It is pretty useless to change him at this point.
Do not even be sucked into his circle of friends. Total redemption will require you to stay away from even his friends.
For those who you felt were really genuine people, you can just explain to them that it is nothing they did wrong to deserve that. Let them know that you are only concerned about safety.
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