Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, March 2, 2011

How To Cope With Difficult People

By Lea Foster


Maybe you have noticed people who tend to be very hard to deal with without them giving any thought to it. Generally they are labeled as bullies and such people are to be found all over the place including the office.

The usual reaction to such uncivil and disrespectful people is for the general public to just swallow it all and not to retaliate. This raises a lot of temperatures in the public places with guys left to decide what to do next.

People tend to deal with such type of rudeness in different ways. Not knowing what steps to take, there are those who would just brace it out, but others like to just smile it away. Well, the latter is a better option since smiling is a positive reaction that can help more than losing your temper.

In other words, this is rudeness in the highest order of the word. People are usually left with no choice but to go through it all without questioning. Make sure you smile genuinely at them, but not with a forced smile. One principle of life is that a smile will attract another smile. It is the only option in handling such people, since if you were to lose your temper it would just make things worse.

Even if you expect to be rewarded afterwards, but just know that these people are not villains at all. Underneath that facade of toughness rudeness, they are normal and humane.

You might turn out to be one in a million when you seek to make a difference in this world. Do not do what everyone else would do, choose to be different by showing him love instead of hatred like the others would be tempted to.

Well, several reasons might be tossed about to explain his unbecoming tendencies - the main ones being that he is just nave, insecure, arrogant, nervous and so forth. Some would say the guy is just trying to cope.

After getting behind the matter, you will be shocked to discover that the guy is just a normal person but is undergoing lots of psychological stress. Choose to show him love and make a difference .




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