Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, February 5, 2011

Warning Signs On That Will Tell A Man Has A Potential To Become Abusive

By Sarah Jacobs


We all have heard of news about women being with abusive people and we still hear them as of today. Abusive men who beat on their wives or even their girlfriends should not be passed on as something normal. These types of violence is common and should be put to an end. Here are some red flags that will tell you to get out of such relationship.

When your partner is too impulsive and would want you to be impulsive too. If your partner wants to do something and forces you to do it with you chances are, it will not take long before he will take control of your life and leave you as his own slave.

Another red flag to an abusive partner is that he wants your undivided attention and nothing else. Not even your work or your parents will separate your attention from him. If he does that, it is time to reassess how you really feel for him.

Abusive men always want to be in charge. So, if you feel that you have no more free will inside your relationship, walk out. Relationships are supposed to be two individuals deciding as one and not one individual deciding for the other.

What if they keep on telling you promises and he ends up breaking every single one of them in the end, maybe you will have to deal with the constant lying and hoping but there is just too much disappointment you can carry. Will you be able to live with lots of disappointment?

When your partner is not able to handle criticisms very well and blames you for it. There will be times that you and your partner will face criticisms from other people and he begins to act like a jerk saying that all of the comments were about you and not about him.

When your partner tells you that you are not good enough. This has got to be the most hurtful thing other than the physical abuse that your partner can tell you. In a relationship, women should be respected and should be appreciated for who and what they are and not what they can't do.

And finally, if your partner forces you to do things that you do not like especially if it is against your will then you will have to say no before he forces you to do things that can get you in a tight position.




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