Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Things That Can Make You Forget Your Depression

By Kathlyn B. Graham


We all become lonely at several times of our lives. It can be caused by a sudden interruption of our joys or some unwanted experience in our lives. No matter what it is, nobody wants to be lonely and cry at the corner of the room. People need to know how to cope up with loneliness or they can end up feeling depressed.

Pinpoint the reason of your loneliness. It can be your grief or that you are just not used to being by yourself. Whatever it is, determine the cause of your loneliness for you to be able to know how to respond to it.

Take up a new sport and join a club even if you are still new. To keep yourself busy and avoid being lonely, learn a new sport and join a club where get to meet different people that you can hang out with.

Take the time to visit your old friends whether they are your childhood friends that you have not visited for several years now or your high school buddy that you had a crush on. These people are good ways to keep you busy and lets you reconnect with your old self.

Accept invitations to parties especially at weekends or holidays. Most of the time, weekends are the longest days because you are stuck inside your apartment alone. Take up an invitation from a friend of yours and take some time mingling with people.

Enroll yourself in a community service program that lets you deal with other people. This will give you a chance to get to know your neighbors and the entire community. If you have some skills that can help other people, get into a program and use that skill to find new friends.

Pets are usually your own best friend who does not talk but actually care for you. Dogs are the best pets to be with. They need to be taken out which lets you socialize with other people who also have pets.

When the time comes that you feel lonely again, make sure that you surround yourself with people whom you can trust and spend quality time with. Go out and have some fun to take your mind off any bad things that could possibly be occurring. Call some friends of yours and invite them over to your place for some impromptu karaoke session. Live up and stop feeling lonely.




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