Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, January 27, 2011

Trying To Move On After Ending A Relationship

By Anna Austin


Are you fresh out of a relationship and not ready to move on? Still thinking you may want to get back with your ex? Whether you enjoy being single or not, getting back into the dating scene my actually be a good thing. Read the following to find out why:

No one likes a break up fight because of the way you are left feeling afterwards. Both parties say pretty hurtful things and leave feeling unwanted and unloved.

Once you start really looking at yourself for who you are and what you have to offer, it makes you feel a lot better. This usually happens when someone new actually "sees" you.

The next best thing to getting into another relationship so fast is a rebound person. That may sound a little harsh, but it can be a good thing for you. You'll branch out your dating experience and you might even meet someone really interesting in the process. Most importantly, you'll prevent yourself from sitting miserably at home in the weeks and months after your breakup.

These kinds of relationships are meant to keep you from being lonely and get you back on your feet. It isn't supposed to end in a serious relationship; it's just for fun and to make you feel good about yourself.

Your ex may also have a rebound and that's okay since it isn't meant to be anything serious. Most don't last longer than a couple weeks.

The main reason is to allow the person giving you all this new found attention to help you reclaim your cheerfulness and take away the loneliness of being dumped.

Remember this rebound situation can restore your lost confidence which in turn makes you even more attractive to others as well as your ex. He or she may notice this and decide they may want you back, which will be completely up to you if you decide you want to backtrack.




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