Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Recovering From A Misunderstanding With Your Friend

By Kimberly C. Caple


When a friendship is broken, it is sometimes very hard to fix knowing that you have hurt the person you trust the most. The deeper the friendship has become the harder it becomes to solidify it back again. Here are some ways for you to reconciliate with your friend.

Say sorry to your friend and mean it. It does not matter who fault it is as long as you are willing to accept that you have also done something that has hurt your friend. The most effective way to patch things with your friends is a sincere sorry.

Talk to your friend about what happened. Take your time to discuss what just happened and what are the reasons behind the animosity between the two of you. Both of you have been friends for too long and that you already know each other's behavior when it comes down to this.

Be respectful to your friend and give him a chance to talk to you to let you know his side of the story. There are always two side of the coin and do try to listen to him as he tells you what happened to your friendship in his own point of view. Once he is done, then you can tell yours.

Think first then speak what you need to speak. There should be a screening process to what you are going to say to your friend when both of you are locked in a conversation. Always screen what you have to say to avoid hurting your friend again.

After a big comeback with your friend, it is never easy to do the things that both of you enjoyed. There might be some awkward moments between the two of you so it is better that you take it slow but steady.

Give your friend the time and space to think about what happened and see if he comes into his senses when the dusts have settled. People's hearts are sure to melt when they realize that they have hurt their friends.

Your friend is like your partner in life, so make sure you treat them as such. When a friend leaves, a part of you goes missing and it is a sad feeling. No one likes to leave a friend behind and with these tips, you are surely going to solidify your relationship with your friends. Get going on these tips right away to keep your friends together.




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