Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, January 20, 2011

A Good Understanding Of Love Is Important Between Married Couples

By Adrian Weaver


Love is a many splendid things; the phrase commonly heard when love is defined. Often than not, this word is used but not truly thought of the deeper meaning of it. There are a lot of cases of divorce in any place on the planet and that is because of misconception on what love is. If love is truly understood, it could be the only reason to save a marriage

Looking back at the times, long before your problems began, your relationship is still strong and going well. Things back then were better and love was the blooming reason for it since you both had each other for when times got tough. You loved each other once; why not take another shot on love again for your own sakes? You just need to sort out the things and the reason you made up to get a divorce.

There are many factors on why a certain relationship could just die. Those factors include but are not limited to communication, coldness, no common interest, insensitivity and many other reasons. If only these causes can be surmounted, then a healthier marriage could be easily obtained.

Women always speak their mind and express their emotions more than men do and this is the most essential part of a relationship to remember because men and women are very different in expressing themselves.

Men on the other hand do not mean that they are not that expressive but they just tend to hold their emotions inside their heart. A woman has always been in the talk section and a guy just usually hides it.

Discussing problems with one another is perhaps the best thing for a couple to do when they are having difficulties. Talking about problems in a peaceful manner can resolve many issues between individuals. All you have to do is have someone help to mediate the situation, as well as keep emotions in tact so no one blows up.

On the other hand, if 2 people are unable to talk each other, then hiring an expert marital adviser can be extremely useful, since a third person can always view matters and issues from an objective point of view and help you out in correcting your mistakes leading to problems as huge as to ending up a relationship.

Love can indeed save any relationship and marriage if it is ingrained in their nature to truly respect one another. Try this out and see for yourself. You might just be surprised how much you do discover when you try to work it out.




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