While it is quite natural for you to fall out of love with the person you are dating after a while, but then you do realize that the person is just now what you are looking for. In that case if becomes difficult to break the relationship without hurting the other person. This can still be done if you know how to handle things.
You can let the relationship peter down and wither away naturally without the other person ever getting to know that she or he was rejected.
When you are trying to explain to the other person why you want to break off, everything including your language, choice of words, your expressions, body language and timing, all things counts besides other factors.
You really do not have to make an obvious attempt to speak up and spoil the relationship. Instead you can show your disinterest in action. The ideal thing would be to get busy and avoid taking phone calls or going out on weekends. Thereby in no time the other person is likely to lose interest in pursuing you and move away. Thereby there is no love lost on both ends.
If you both happen to be studying or working together, even then you can mentally and emotionally cut off while working together and remain aloof.
Remain cool and normal, refuse to recognize the other person with special attention, rather treat him or her as any other college and soon they will get the message.
The chances are very high that the other person will approach you to ask you to clarify your behavior. At this opportunity you can rightly explain to him or her that you are not able to take the matter further for you are too busy and pre occupied with work and other goals. End it by asking them to go ahead and feel free to go out with someone else.
If you are able to handle it well, you can explain to them why you would not want them to wait for you and waste their time as well as opportunity of finding someone else. Make them understand and wish them good luck. Thereby both of you are set free.
You can let the relationship peter down and wither away naturally without the other person ever getting to know that she or he was rejected.
When you are trying to explain to the other person why you want to break off, everything including your language, choice of words, your expressions, body language and timing, all things counts besides other factors.
You really do not have to make an obvious attempt to speak up and spoil the relationship. Instead you can show your disinterest in action. The ideal thing would be to get busy and avoid taking phone calls or going out on weekends. Thereby in no time the other person is likely to lose interest in pursuing you and move away. Thereby there is no love lost on both ends.
If you both happen to be studying or working together, even then you can mentally and emotionally cut off while working together and remain aloof.
Remain cool and normal, refuse to recognize the other person with special attention, rather treat him or her as any other college and soon they will get the message.
The chances are very high that the other person will approach you to ask you to clarify your behavior. At this opportunity you can rightly explain to him or her that you are not able to take the matter further for you are too busy and pre occupied with work and other goals. End it by asking them to go ahead and feel free to go out with someone else.
If you are able to handle it well, you can explain to them why you would not want them to wait for you and waste their time as well as opportunity of finding someone else. Make them understand and wish them good luck. Thereby both of you are set free.
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