Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, November 15, 2010

The Most Effective Advice To Sustain Your Marriage

By Greg Scotch

A lot marriages break up for so many reasons and one can really not talk about all these reasons. But whatever reason wrecked your home, it is very important to be clear on the fact that, it was no one person's error

Marriages are still falling apart and it just will not be possible to stop all of them, but there are few hints that can be of much help or even save your home from parting. This can accompany the normal counseling you take.

The first rule is communication. This is so central that its absence can do a lot of damage. So every effort should be made to fix the communication lines in your relationship. You cannot make all the time for your partner but just a little time will be enough to save the marriage. And it can be on and topic at all. It does not matter just start it and it will pull you two together.

Another wonderful plan that can save you from divorce is going out for date. This will surely bring to both of a different atmosphere from the one at home and this can do a lot to your relationship, it again brings in the element of romance and once romance is present your marriage can survive the hard times.

At home and where ever convenient, you must strive to work as one body. This is very important to reduce the work load on just one person. So as you help each other with the work you also find a common activity which can impart positively on your relationship. Know that two will always have a better idea and can accomplish more.

But because you are different from each other, you might as well ,have very personal things that does not bring the two of you together. That is very fine but it must be agreed upon so that it will not rather cause problems. If it is a game or hobby you do separately, just create the room to enjoy it. This is always healthy for the relationship because you all need space of your own. It will as well bring diversity in conversation.

However there will be times when things will not be the same. There could be tensions and a whole lot of bad times but that is the very right time to keep your composure. It is even best no go angry because you might do something to regret later. Keep your cool and allow issues to calm down. When the argument does not favor you, just admit it and carry on. Remember your pride can not be important then your home.

It takes hard work to make a successful home and you need to put in your very best to sustain your marriage. Sometimes it might seem Avery tall order for but know that if that tall order will save your relationship then you need to endure it for the sake of the family.

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