Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, October 7, 2010

Helpful Counseling You Can Receive From A Life Coach

By David Hartley

A popular alternative to spending money on a high charging psychiatrists or psychologists for lifestyle management, is hiring a life coach. A lot of people who hire them do it for the mentoring through their life's journey.

Most life coaches don't have a professional license so are you sure they can actually help you through? Are these coaches capable to see you through personal life concerns?

A lifestyle coach can be a good option if you just need help assessing a situation, as long as they are not medically related. It really depends on the kind of guidance you are looking for. If you happen to need direction, motivation, assurance or someone who is able to identify with your feelings and concerns a life coach may be the choice for you.

A good life coach will make you understand how you are accountable for yourself and your actions, and that in order to achieve your goals and move on you must accept this first. They will open your eyes to possibilities you never thought of and guide you through concerns in your life.

An effective life coach will teach you to know your strengths, work within your own limitations and teaches you the most important part is to like yourself. They will understand your fears and help you through all of them.

A life coach will provide you with strategies which will work in real life situations that are based on experiences not from textbook solutions.

When choosing a life coach, ask about the previous clients and how many they have had. You can even ask for references and make sure they have years of experience under their belt.

You will find it easier to work with a coach because they help you to establish a better perspective in life and establish a road map to being able to achieve your goals and to view the point of your situations.

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