Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, September 19, 2010

Tips To Achieve A Fulfilling Relationship

By James Kent

For just as many happy couples you may see, there are just as many you are not happy at times. Below you will find some helpful tips to help keep the sunshine in your relationship on those rainy days.

Always talk to your partner. Don't be consumed by just your own personal issues, hear your partner out as well.

Ask your mate about their day, their week, their job, things that matter to them. When you show interest in someone else's life they are appreciative and wants to continue talking with you on other occasions.

It's the small things that really count. Have a picnic together, lie on the couch together and read books, walk to the nearby ice cream shop and buy your mate their favorite ice cream. These are little things but they will make your mate happy which should make you happy as well.

Always try to remember and think of the things that you like about your partner and the reason you fell for them in the first place. The reason your care for this person should outweigh the bad things about them.

Don't nitpick at the things that probably won't matter in five years. If he leaves the toilet seat up, so what?! if she leaves the cap for the toothpaste off, who cares?! It isn't that big of a deal. Be thankful for having this person in your life who cares for you.

Don't let small things upset and frustrate you. Remember the positive things going on in your life and be thankful for all of your blessings. Some people are not as blessed as you, so remember to be appreciative and not to complain about things you have no control over.

Be passionate about life. This will lead to a happier you and a happier significant other because you won't dwell on the small things. Enjoy each day of life with him or her and watch how things change for you two.

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