Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, September 13, 2010

Simple Steps To Get Your Ex Back

By Julie Wilson

Most everyone experiences a break up at some point or another, most simply try to move on right away. But if you are over playing the victim and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are options for you.

If you know how to handle the break up, you can almost always get your ex back. The first thing you must do is determine exactly what caused the break up in the first place. Without knowing what caused the break up, you are in danger of repeating it if you manage to get back together with your ex.

It could have ended because of a lot of little things, or one big event. It doesn't matter which it was, but you must get it figured out so you know how to handle it if it comes up again. You can get an ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

The next thing to do is make sure you're not being clingy or needy. Everyone goes through a lot of hurt after being broken up with, but that is no reason to try to jump back into the relationship. Don't let your ex think that they have a huge effect on you and that you can't get on without them.

You also don't want to try to hurt your ex and cause them emotional pain. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.

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