Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, September 23, 2010

The Laws Of Attraction And Your New Life

By Heather Berry

In your life, you will meet a variety of different people. Some of these people will be smarter than others; some will be kinder than others. Some will possess the highest qualifications in their field. However, any of these factors may or may not determine the success of these people. What separates them is the use, knowingly or unknowingly of the laws of attraction.

The process of self re-creation may seem very daunting. After all, you can't see your inner self, so how can you know if you are making the right sort of changes? To re-create yourself you need to spend a lot of mental energy first learning about yourself and redefining what you know.

The laws of attraction are not anything that you can find in a judicial tome. It also has nothing to do with being physically attractive to the opposite sex. The laws of attraction are collectively a mindset that creates an aura of happiness and success around you.

Once you have discovered your basic self-perception, it is time to recreate it. You need to take time to sit down with yourself, either in a peaceful outdoor setting, or a space you feel very comfortable in and focus on all the parts of yourself that you like.

Take a walk or spend an hour in the bathtub with your phone on silent. Think about what you like about yourself and what you wish you could change.

Don't exaggerate your strengths and conversely, don't overplay your weaknesses. Instead, take every weakness and try to look at it in an angle that can re-create it into a success. For example, instead of thinking 'I'm a pushover, ' think 'I'm a good team player.'

Every time you notice a negative trait in yourself, find a way to rephrase it in a positive light. If you keep consciously doing this for months it will eventually become second nature. You will learn to think positively of yourself. Once you can do that, it is time to let the laws of attraction loose.

You need to be attractive to friends, co-workers, bosses, and even strangers. Attract them with the strength of your personality and self-confidence. These people are then more likely to give you promotions and other opportunities for bettering yourself. The best thing about the laws of attraction are their infectious quality. The more you use them, the more good things will happen to you, and the better you'll feel about yourself, which will in turn leads you to want to use it even more. As soon as you can create a truly positive self-image, you will be able to use the laws of attraction to climb the ladder of success.

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