There comes a point when you have to review your relationships and see where you stand. But on such occasions it so happens that you are not clear about what you want out of the relationship. If these were to be happening with you and concerns your girlfriend, then it calls for looking within and facing the truth for yourself.
You should stay put in the relationship only if you are happy at heart and this should be the only consideration to keep it going.
If you believe that the relationship needs another try and a chance from both of you to make it work, fine invest the effort and time. If not, it is better to separate and go on with life on your own.
Immediately after your break up, it is natural to be feeling sad and missing your girlfriend or wondering if you made a mistake. Do not worry; it takes a while to get over these things. You will soon feel happy when a new person enters your life and makes you feel good.
Sometimes it does happen that no matter what you do, you feel moody and bad. It could just be one of those days. Don't let that wear you down.
If living with your girlfriend is becoming another routine and you are just not being happy, it is time to face it for yourself that there is no future in this relationship. The best option is to end it amicably and get on with your life and be ready for the romance, which may be just around the corner.
Why do you need to keep your unhappiness to yourself? Why not sit down with your girlfriend and have a frank chat. May be it helps both of you make the required changes and get closer? She may not be aware of how you are feeling and hence not had the opportunity to work towards the relationship. May be you should give her a chance to try and improve things.
Even after a few chances and discussions if things are not improving in your relationship, then you girlfriend may not be making changes from within. If you are not happy, you may want to end this relationship and not suffer it for too long.
You should stay put in the relationship only if you are happy at heart and this should be the only consideration to keep it going.
If you believe that the relationship needs another try and a chance from both of you to make it work, fine invest the effort and time. If not, it is better to separate and go on with life on your own.
Immediately after your break up, it is natural to be feeling sad and missing your girlfriend or wondering if you made a mistake. Do not worry; it takes a while to get over these things. You will soon feel happy when a new person enters your life and makes you feel good.
Sometimes it does happen that no matter what you do, you feel moody and bad. It could just be one of those days. Don't let that wear you down.
If living with your girlfriend is becoming another routine and you are just not being happy, it is time to face it for yourself that there is no future in this relationship. The best option is to end it amicably and get on with your life and be ready for the romance, which may be just around the corner.
Why do you need to keep your unhappiness to yourself? Why not sit down with your girlfriend and have a frank chat. May be it helps both of you make the required changes and get closer? She may not be aware of how you are feeling and hence not had the opportunity to work towards the relationship. May be you should give her a chance to try and improve things.
Even after a few chances and discussions if things are not improving in your relationship, then you girlfriend may not be making changes from within. If you are not happy, you may want to end this relationship and not suffer it for too long.
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