Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, June 27, 2010

Looking Into The Best Funeral Memorial Service Program For Your Be Loved One

By Tom Tree

Planning a funeral for a loved one you know that it has to be important. However, for some people you will want to know how to find the best funeral memorial service program for your be loved one. Here are some of the ways that you can use to impress people with this service.

One tip is to see what the person enjoyed when they were living. Finding out what they enjoyed doing will allow you to know what to base the funeral around.

Something else that will help you out is making sure that you use the right church. You might have changed your religion since you last seen the people, but the person that you are having the funeral for never changed theirs. So make sure that you choose the one that they want to have used.

You will also need to determine if you want to have a party after the burial. The party can be a nice way to celebrate the life that just passed away so that they will know that you do care for them.

Some people might want to give speeches to help others know about the person so you need to weigh in on if you want that or not. These can be nice, but at the same time if you choose the wrong person it could end up being an attack on the deceased that they cannot defend themselves from.

When you are trying to plan to bury a loved one you know that it is going to be hard to do. However, if you do not do it properly your entire family will never let you forget, but at the same time you will want to make sure that you take into consideration all the items that you think the person being buried would like to see as well.

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