Do you complain about mornings, especially Monday morning? It's something that seems to be endemic in our society. And that's a real shame.
But pause for a moment and think about the alternative.
Anyone who complains about morning should keep this that in mind, If it's a choice between waking up and not, well, which do you prefer?
But for most MCs (morning complainers) it's not a question of waking up or not, it's what their life is like when they do wake up. The way I see it is, if you're complaining about waking up in the morning, you must be pretty unhappy about your lot in life. Wouldn't you agree?
Let's face it, waking up with a new day laid out before you, 24 new fresh hours ready for you to experience is really a wonderful gift.
Now I know that every minute of every day can be filled with pure joy and happiness. Every waking moment can't be overflowing with enthusiasm. That's simply unrealistic. We all have things we must do that we'd rather not. There are mundane boring activities that must be attended to. But... to "hate" mornings speaks volumes to me. It says you've made some poor choices in life. Let's face it, if thinking about doing some unpleasant tasks colors your entire perspective on life, wake up and smell the roses!
Because life really is all the choices we make. We make hundreds, maybe thousands of them every day. The vast majority of our choices are small such as what shirt to wear or should I have that second cup of coffee, and a few are major such as the decision to buy a new house or to find a new job.
Some of our choices involve physical things as mentioned above. But many are strictly between the ears! And that's what I want to focus on in the rest of this article. And it brings us back to the MCs.
We all make the choice of waking up to a day full of opportunities and challenges or focusing on all the things we dread.
It's a question of choices.
Let's say you find yourself in a job you detest. Why are you there? What choices did you make to get there and what choices are you making that keep you there?
Is your choosing to be miserable making things worse. Could you improve your enjoyment of life if you simple made a choice to be happier, to greet people with a smile and to be more helpful?
Whether you like it and accept it or not, we all choose the outlook we have towards life. It really is sad that a lot of people choose to be victims. And yes, that is a choice people make. Maybe not consciously, but that's the nature of being a victim. In reality most people who play the victim role won't even recognize themselves as such.
Now I'm not saying that you choose to be a victim, it's just an example. What I am going to do though, is challenge you to take a serious look at your perspective on life.
If you fall short, in other words if you don't view life as a great and wonderful adventure that you anticipate with enthusiasm every day, I challenge you to make some new choices. Do you need to find some new opportunities to go after or do you simply need to start seeing life in a new light?
It's your choice!
But pause for a moment and think about the alternative.
Anyone who complains about morning should keep this that in mind, If it's a choice between waking up and not, well, which do you prefer?
But for most MCs (morning complainers) it's not a question of waking up or not, it's what their life is like when they do wake up. The way I see it is, if you're complaining about waking up in the morning, you must be pretty unhappy about your lot in life. Wouldn't you agree?
Let's face it, waking up with a new day laid out before you, 24 new fresh hours ready for you to experience is really a wonderful gift.
Now I know that every minute of every day can be filled with pure joy and happiness. Every waking moment can't be overflowing with enthusiasm. That's simply unrealistic. We all have things we must do that we'd rather not. There are mundane boring activities that must be attended to. But... to "hate" mornings speaks volumes to me. It says you've made some poor choices in life. Let's face it, if thinking about doing some unpleasant tasks colors your entire perspective on life, wake up and smell the roses!
Because life really is all the choices we make. We make hundreds, maybe thousands of them every day. The vast majority of our choices are small such as what shirt to wear or should I have that second cup of coffee, and a few are major such as the decision to buy a new house or to find a new job.
Some of our choices involve physical things as mentioned above. But many are strictly between the ears! And that's what I want to focus on in the rest of this article. And it brings us back to the MCs.
We all make the choice of waking up to a day full of opportunities and challenges or focusing on all the things we dread.
It's a question of choices.
Let's say you find yourself in a job you detest. Why are you there? What choices did you make to get there and what choices are you making that keep you there?
Is your choosing to be miserable making things worse. Could you improve your enjoyment of life if you simple made a choice to be happier, to greet people with a smile and to be more helpful?
Whether you like it and accept it or not, we all choose the outlook we have towards life. It really is sad that a lot of people choose to be victims. And yes, that is a choice people make. Maybe not consciously, but that's the nature of being a victim. In reality most people who play the victim role won't even recognize themselves as such.
Now I'm not saying that you choose to be a victim, it's just an example. What I am going to do though, is challenge you to take a serious look at your perspective on life.
If you fall short, in other words if you don't view life as a great and wonderful adventure that you anticipate with enthusiasm every day, I challenge you to make some new choices. Do you need to find some new opportunities to go after or do you simply need to start seeing life in a new light?
It's your choice!
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